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Things were looking pretty bleak for my fiance and I. Now, I feel like I've got my best friend back. Im giving this site all credit for that. I was at a loss on what to do your how to handle my relationship with my fiance. He suffers from severe PTSD due to childhood trauma. I was feelinf very...

I plan on asking him if he's comfortable with it first. I wouldnt make him do anything that he wouldnt be ready for

Thank you, I also googled and found the same results. I think i am going to check out barnes and noble and buy a few for my kids. I think they might be good bedtime stories for him and the kids to read together.

Snowflakes you have been so insiteful on this touchy subject. I really thank you for your help When I have someone with the knowledge you do to turn to its like a load off my shoulders. I feel so much more relaxed about my relationship now.

I just want to say to everyone who has posted... Thank you so so much! I love my fiance very much and getting feedback from people who know what he's going thru and how I feel has saved our relationship. Im very grateful! I hope you continue to post. The more ideas the better. It seems that a...

Thats a great idea. My older o es love to read. Do you have any suggestions for books?

Thank you so much snowflakes. I want you to know that I am taking your advice and going to seek a therapist for myself. Having someone to talk to and be able to have feedback is always helpful. My biggest need is to know that I am doing the best I can to help him and try not to make things worse...

I personally havent sought a therapist but he has. He's currently medicated and talking to a counselor weekly. As far as sitti g down together to come up with solutions, he's not the greatest communicator. It's very hard to get him to open up and talk, even if its for help. He seems to prefer...

Thats a great suggestion. He would have some quite and the kids would love it as well. Im feeling so much better knowing that there are things i can do to help him. I was so worried that our relAtionship was hopeless because i had kids.i always felt like he was attacking my kids. Which in turn...

Thank you for your input. He has however tried to go to a quite area of the house. Unfortunately he chose to sit in the only bathroom in the house and run the shower to drown out the noise. That works ok for him until someone has to use the bathroom naturally. I have tried to offer alternatives...

I have been with my fiancé for over a year now. At the start of the relationship he was a major alchoholic. Since then he sought help and was diagnosed with severe PTSD. This isnt from a war but instead a tramatic event. He suffers from anxiety. I want to make it work with him because i do love...