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Well I'm happy you shared. I'm happy you got a range of responses and I hope things go better for you soon. Life is hard on us all. Before you know it, this thing will blow over... It may even be something you and your therapist look back on and admire how far you've come. Much love and well...

Needs adjustment in this situation. I speak to you as a friend who has and understands PTSD. Opening your perspective a bit will help you avoid this in the future is all. You may feel anyway you want to, I just caution you to balance your inner narrative on this.

Yeah i didnt reply to agree with you. I do not agree with you. You can say that "they needed to communicate to you" all you want but people are people, we don't always have the clarity to perfectly approach a touchy situation. At work it can be even harder. It's a touchy, difficult situation as...

Um... Sorry this won't be what you want to hear, but you were out of line consistently. Those people, the staff, owe you nothing short of showing you to your appointment and being polite. Winter time, early appointments, hall ways whatever it be... You are owed nothing more than anyone else...

Thank you!! I understand now

Watching TV, random question... What do "out of scope" and "in scope" mean in terms of polygraph tests? I can't find any definitions online... Anybody know?

Cool. Well its alright to not be okay sometimes and to share. I'm happy you're here :)

You seem off about it No judgement just an observation. Are you in the early stages of reveal

Are you okay.

I do love him and wish we could try again. But I left because he didnt try so idk. It's hard. I feel like we both love(d) each other. I just can't believe he would cut me off completely like that. I feel like things can always improve and that love is strong and inspiring. I feel like...

Not sure. He tried his best to be very logical and unemotional. My emotional ...ness.. bothered and stressed him

I wasn't happy with how things were and felt abandoned. He is horrible at communicating and is stubborn. But I love him and appreciate what he has done for me.

I'm wondering if I should wait longer idk..

Long story short, I moved across states to be with a boyfriend I met online. We ended up fighting a lot and our issues got in the way. He moved out after a few months and wanted to stay in a relationship to see if things improved. It got to the point where I saw him only a few times a month if...

I'm sorry this happened to you but I'm happy you're at a place to start facing it and healing. Therapy will help, also understanding how to talk to yourself and treat yourself with the most respect and highest compassion possible. Writing was therapeutic for me. Maybe it will help you? If you...

Ugh me too... Sounds similar to me and my ex. This is hurtful stuff. Everyone just wants to be accepted for who and how they are. Nobody is perfect but if my ex ever had voiced an issue with how I look physically, it would've started a war lol. I wonder what her gripes are with the OP?

If you were to leave her and a few months go by and you run into her again and she's fit and in shape, would you have more respect for her and would regret your decision to leave (if you did indeed leave)? I'd explore that answer independently..

Ugh it sucks when love ends. I was kinda hoping u could work it out somehow lol..

I'm sorry you're dealing with this tough and touchy situation. I see where your heart is, and you're set on leaving. I think being honest with her while leaving out the sex and attraction issue is your best bet. No need to stay in a situation you don't see a future in. Can you remain friends...

I broke up with my supporter ex a while ago after moving states to be with him and it not working out. He wanted to date but not live together anymore and I barely saw him. I felt like a placeholder and there was no intimacy so I ended it. We lived apart for 5 months prior. Anyway I saw his...

You're not alone, myself and my life are very similar to what you're describing. It's rough because I feel like when I'm being friendly, the weird, creepy or abusive people flock to me and it really discourages me. I don't know when I'll be comfortable enough around people to try to even...

Interesting topic I think certain personality types are more fluent with courtesies and better able to access within and express outwardly what society considers "nice". I think there are different definitions based on how people interpret... e.g., a person ending a relationship quickly may...

As an outsider.. you are over thinking. It will be fine!! :)

Therapists deal with so much crazy on a regular basis... you think a good friend reaching out for your benefit would ruffle this profesional? Nah. You're fine.

Respectfully... I think you're overreacting. You're blessed to have a friend who went that far. Everything is fine