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Hello, I recently found these forums which have been greatly helpful over the past couple months. I recently posted my own story of loving a man with Ptsd. he is now isolating, we communicated some in the beginning but i realize now that it didn't help. So now i am not reaching out to him at all...

I posted my situation recently but the short story is. My boyfriend and i got in an argument last month. we've been together 2 years, and lived together. I didnt know he had ptsd till that argument. So, he broke up with me and told me to leave so i grabbed some things and left. Its been about a...

Thanks, i appreciate your perspective. Also i certainly did not mean to offend anyone with the title of my post. I certainly do not beleive all people are the same no matter what they are dealing with.

I want to say to everyone who has responded that i appreciate all of your perspectives whether you are a sufferer or a supporter. Please understand that i came here looking for advice since i have no experience with ptsd and up until now didn't even know this was something he dealt with. However...

Thank you so much @Willowtree . It helps so much to know that others have experienced the same thing. I was truly in awe of what happened and hearing other peoples experiences has helped greatly. Thank you for your kind words.

@Sighs Thank you for your perspective! Not knowing about the ptsd, i felt very strongly that it was something I should know. Yes i pushed for information, but as in pushing for a conversation. I didn't yell or try to argue i just felt like this was something i should have known if we were...

I understand i made a mistake. I shouldn't have pressed for info. I should have let it go, i get all that now. That's partly what makes it so hard because i know i caused it. Ive had other relationships that fizzled out or ended because of differences but i cant think of one ex that i wouldn't...

I'm sure people have the best intentions. It's just too soon to just forget and move on. We were happy, a few days before this fight he told me that he wanted to grow old with me and we had started to discuss marriage. The fact that is was so sudden was what threw me off. I'm used to someone...

Thank you, I don't feel comfortable sharing all this with family and friends. It really helps to have another perspective from someone who has similar experiences. Ptsd is all new to me, i honestly had no idea what to think or do. I agree now that i should not contact him. I want things to get...

Thank you, that did hurt seeing the the stalking comment. I don't feel like im stalking, i was just confused and looking for advice. I appreciate your comment, you are very right i feel heart broken and not too logical right now which is why i decided to post here and give my boyfriend space.

Sorry for long post, any insight helpful... Hello, I'm new here and reading these posts have help me to get through the past two weeks. I have been dating a man for nearly 3 years, off and on the first 6 months, but 2 years ago we committed ourselves to each other and i moved in with him. We...