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I've tried to but he asked me not to bring it up. It seems just a reminder is too painful for him. I know that he's just trying to bury it all again in the hopes it won't come back. Trouble is, it always does and to be honest this last episode really scared me. Thanks for the support.

He's a bit of an ostrich when it comes to us problems; lets just bury this and hope it'll go away.... There's no vet centre in South Africa as far as I know and now we're living in Botswana where there's very little mental health care at all. Maybe I can persuade him to get some help on line...

He's been very quiet since this last episode and doesn't want to talk about it. Unfortunately there's never been any help for the men who served the previous South African Government but I'm sure we could go private if my husband would agree, which I have my doubts about. He's very ashamed and...

Thank you so much for your comment. I would love for my husband to get professional help, it's hard to see him go through this and scary too. Unfortunately we live in an African country where there's very little mental health care and probably none that would be suitable for him. I'll try and...

i believe my husband of 18 years has ptsd. He's never been diagnosed as he's so ashamed and won't seek help. He did active military duty about 30 years ago and I understand he witnessed and took part in some awful things that he absolutely refuses to talk about. He has always been a restless...