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I totally agree. He has found out I’m moving house and he rang and said send me a picture of your house as proof you are moving. I told him I had nothing to prove to him. He then said ‘and you wonder why I can’t come back, because you lie all the time and hide things’.

I have to see him every weekend when I drop and collect kids.

I had to see him today. I picked the kids up from him. He gave me chocolates and card off kids for mother’s day. I drove away and he rang and said where you going cause you don’t live that way. I said none of your business and went to put the phone down when he said ‘and you wonder why I won’t...

Thank you very much. I know I can do it. I am strong. I just need to believe in myself when I’m feeling rock bottom.

Yes I believe the mind games will really step up nowthat he knows I’m forgetting him. I need to be the strongest I’ve ever been. If I need to talk I will come here and not talk to him. This is going to be very hard now.

No I’m not going to don’t worry. I threw the note at his car and told him never to speak to me again. I just can’t believe the cheek of him!

I have made an appointment next week for some counselling. In the mean time he has told my son to hand me a note. In the note it says. “I need time to really decide wether I want to be with her or be with you or do I just want to come back to you because I miss my kids badly” What an arsehole!

Thank you for your kind words. I know I will get there. I will get onto seeing a counsellor as soon as possible. I’m going to hold off on the divorce for the time meaning so I’m not only financially stable but also mentally stable to be able to get through it. I have a bunch of great friends...

I will do I really will, thank you. Where are you all from? USA I take it by your words

Yes I am.

Everything everyone has said makes total sense to me but all that overpowers my head is you will never be happy. He’s like an addictive drug that I can’t seem to come off

Well techniqually he already has, with me.

She thinks she won the lottery. She told me he didn’t care about me and that’s why he cheated but she’s different, he wanted to be with her. Lives in cuckoo land.

I know her. We were ‘friends’ before this. Not close friends but we would talk on a daily basis. She knew who I was, that he was married to me and our children. She didn’t care. Yes I agree but sometimes when something like this happens your mind let’s you believe that this is a reflection on...

I know he doesn’t care about me, no matter what he says. But I think he cares about her. He does everything he can to put her first and hides everything away from her.

I agree with everything you’re saying. The only reason I never broke contact with him is because he’s been in my life since I was 16 and he got me through my past. But it’s no way to live like this. I don’t want to be with him. I just want a way forward. We have children together so I can’t cut...

Thank you very much mumstheword. I really appreciate it. He makes me feel like I’m going mad. I was abused by my cousin when I was 13. He was my best friend before and I was so close to him he was more like my brother. When I refused he used to tell me I was fat and ugly and rubbish in bed...

It’s not about the relationship. It’s about the impact he’s had on me. My life feels like a complete waste of time and people I meet (I don’t mean guys) I think instantly keep away cause I’m no good. He’s shattered my confidence and I don’t feel I’ll ever get it back.

Yes I do agree with you but he’s messed with my head so much I don’t feel human anymore.

Myself.

Before I write this post, I know I’m stupid, I know I was being a doormat in any case. I’m just after advice not to be slated. My husband left me a year and a half ago. Before he left he was repeatedly messaging a woman whom he worked with and hiding his phone constantly. Randomly one day he...