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The money thing was because she has borrowed money in the past and always paid back in 3-days. I figured that would happen again. I have blocked and deleted her now, though. I am not happy with her using her PTSD to control my behaviour for an entire year (she kept on saying I was triggering...

I can't seem to get that to work. I have blocked a past client on Facebook and done the same, but their chat head is still in the list. Hmm. I'll tinker around some more. At the moment, I am partially thinking I don't want to block just in case she needs help (or she pays me my money back)...

Thanks for correcting me. As I said; I do not really understand PTSD. This was the first time I encountered it. I tried to learn, and I do admit I got things wrong in the relationship. Things I knew I shouldn't have done. I understand it is still her, though.

I could block and delete her. The problem is that due to the way in which Facebook Messenger works, even if I block and delete her, she still appears in my contact list. This means I have to look at her face each time I head on Facebook. The only way around that is for her to block and delete...

It went 'OK'. What happened afterwards shattered me, though. I loaned her money after the breakup. She was suffering a financial issue at the time. It has been a month since she was due to pay it back, and I have received no communication from her. I originally told her I wanted a quarter back...

Nope. No support structure in place. I am currently living alone in a foreign country, and due to the 'considerations' I have had to make to her other the year, I have zero friends left. So, tomorrow, I have a 4-hour train journey to her, and a 4-hour train journey back completely alone.

My (now ex) girlfriend has diagnosed complex PTSD. A lot of this is tied to abuse she witnessed (but wasn't subject to) when she was younger. The condition was exasperated by being cheated on in a 10-year relationship. I was her first proper relationship after this. There are aspects of her...