Recent content by Bluejam

Yup I get it...I didn’t ask sooner, I don’t know how chequing (much less spell it) account works, I don’t know how to handle my finances, I should go back to school, I should e-transfer or better yet treat her like a drug dealer and cash only, do a lot more self talk, that I’m asking too much...

I’ve been ridiculed enough in this post I don’t dare start another

Thanks Grit for your response. For a full year of seeing her I’ve never had an issue with her cashing my cheque’s… About 2 months ago I brought up with my T that I thought things weren’t moving as fast as I liked them to. She said what if I provide you 6 months of free therapy and you can...

Yes you nailed it . Money has always been a trigger for me, my T also knows it but I will explore it more with her. Thanks for your input it was greatly appreciated.

Thanks @gealach for understanding & yes, there was some good that I took from the threads and there were some lessons learned as well. ? Have yourself a good night.

Maybe I should asked in my OP “if anyone experienced a similar situation”. I may have gotten carried away with my emotions but I don’t believe I deserved the condescending rhetoric of how a bank account/cheque works.

This has never been about not being able to afford therapy, balancing my checkbook or the education I should be receiving because of my “financial ignorance”. ? I never ever stated I could not afford or was freaked out about the money coming or going out of my account. At the end of the day she...

You are correct I have choices and cash it will be.

How is that any different? In fact hers requires more sensitivity.

I still don’t understand why it takes her 6 weeks to take a picture of my cheque’s and load them into her account. There is no need to physically go to a bank to deposit a cheque. I don’t see how giving her a cheque or e-transferring is any different, if I e-transfer she still has to accept the...

I’d like someone’s feedback...please. I’ve been seeing my therapist for over a year and recently she has stopped cashing my cheque’s. I currently have 4 outstanding cheque’s and my account is going to take a huge hit if she cashed them all at once. It’s got me so angry that I’m thinking of...

Thanks everyone… I think I'm going to continue with this trauma therapist and see where this leads me. I'm starting to think maybe my ex-therapist should have referred me to someone whom could of handled me better, instead of roaming in unchartered territory. I'm upset that I have to...

Yes she taught me some… but this new therapist taught me more in one session.

thanks Scout I agree with you Scout. I've tossed that one around multiple times. Regarding making things worse? I think it's unavoidable. They always tell you it gets worse before it gets better. That being said, I wish she would have had the skills to get me past the body memories. Scout...

:) Thanks Unicorn for the 'pump me up' response I think in the back of my mind I was thinking what you're saying. By th by, I really don't consider myself brave. Regarding my old therapist taking me back, she probably would. I texted her after our lasting session saying… 'thanks for being...