Recent content by chaotic harmony

I just want to tell you that I'm SO proud of you for emailing again and that you are going to talk this over with her! Your strength is amazing. And the letter you are going to write yourself? Brilliant. I'm pretty sure you & T will get through this and that your relationship will be that much...

@Rumors :hug: I very much appreciate your kindness, thank you!! I have been journaling about this but I'm still trying to correctly identify feelings/emotions. He actually has me do homework surrounding that. I'm not quite sure what the proper protocol is for me to take ownership of my...

I'm pretty sure mine would say something very similar. It's just hard to get that thought out of my head because it's been ingrained in there since childhood. I need to work on that.

Thank you for these thoughtful posts! :happy: I'm feeling a bit better today. I'm just keeping myself immersed in my art...that helps me to remain calm. *insert art emoji here* I'm sure we will have a very calm talk about it, and I'm looking forward to it. Neither of my previous Ts would let...

Thank you all for your thoughtful posts. I have no plans to terminate with him at all. Like I said, he has helped me more than all my previous therapy hours combined. I'm just hurting right now. I'm not angry. To move forward I just need him to tell me how/why this happened, and I know he...

YOU deserve her amazingness! There is no such thing as "she deserves better." YOU are that better. You're hurting right now over attachment but I know she gets that and she wants to work on that with you. I know because she said so in her email. Can you at least call her and talk it over? If you...

Oh no! PLEASE don't let this thread be the cause of you ending your therapy. Oh...I'm so sad for you right now. Unsend, unsend! (Ok I know that's not possible) Can you at least talk to her face to face before making this absolutely final?

<Message edited: Forum administration is not for public discussion. Raise a help ticket to discuss with staff.> A lot of therapists encourage this as they know some things are easier said in writing. It's not crossing a boundary to have email conversations if the therapist allows it. If you go...

No no no! You are NOT horrible!!! Not at all! I completely understand your thinking and what you are going through is hard. It's so freakin difficult to deal with attachments and I recognize you trying really hard to understand it and to understand what you need from her. I disagree completely...

I think I may be coming off as a complete bitch here. I know you can't tell tone through writing. I completely understand that things come up. I do. I get it. I have NO problem when that happens, such as last week and the holiday schedule. I have never been upset when I've been asked to change...

I seem to have completely missed this somehow... You're right, I don't know what his other clients are going through, but unless one of them experienced extreme torture last weekend, or they are dying, they aren't more critical than I am. And if someone did experience what I did, he should...