Recent content by Charlottexxx0

Thank you so much for your replies. I remember him saying that when he had a heart bypass at heart attack at 32 it made him see life differently. I understand that PTSD will probably do the same. I have spoken again to my family and they are starting to understand more. Keeping busy seems to be...

Thank you so so much for the hug. It really cheered me up :-) I am now coming to terms with having to wait. The letter worked !!!! I had a response by text to it. Progress :-) It seems that I am now getting the odd text every few days :-) He still won't talk to me on the phone but the texts will...

Thank you for all your support. My family just don't seem to understand. They say that he has left me, won't come back and move on. With all the help from here and everyones kind words I now know that I have got to get used to the odd texts, waiting, waiting and more waiting. I will not text...

Thank you Jawn for your reply. It is just so hard but it helps so much being able to vent on here and get advice.

My partner of 3 years left me a week ago and went 200 miles away to his mum and dads. He has been to the doctors and has been diagnosed with PTSD through an accident and is waiting for his appointment to see a counsellor. I know that he is in a dark place and is struggling but I feel so...

Got that horrible, panicky feeling in my stomach. Ohhhh, hope I have done the right thing.Not heard anything form him in two days so I've wrote a letter to my partner telling him that I love him, will support him if he lets me but that I have got to know if he wants me. Panicking now that I...

Thank you so much for your reply Nishkaa. It really helps to know that I am not alone. I am going to try and sort out some way forward with the financial problems tomorrow and leave my partner alone. It is just so hard to suddenly have no-one to turn to. My family are great but just don't...

Thank you for your advice. I am definately going to go and look at the articles to learn as much as I can to help him. It is just so hard, especially as he is now 200 miles away with his mum and dad. Hard to understand why he could turn to them but not me. I have not heard from him at all today...

Please advice me what to do. I am so confused. My partner of three years is a lorry driver and a year ago a car went into him and the driver died. It was in no way his fault. It is only now that I have found that this is the reason why he has changed over the last year when he admitted...