Recent content by crazynightz

Thanks Rajkumar, I look forward to hearing from you when you get a space. The counsellor I see is from the U.S and now lives in NZ. He was with a shamanic teacher for 12 years and became a counsellor after that. It has been quite an experience and really timely. I look forward to hearing about...

Hi Bitzer, Thanks for what you have shared on how we are brain wired in regards to trauma and self soothing. I carry a basic understanding, but am now intrigued to learn more, especially in the counselling context. You say you have specialised in infant trauma? I would like to know more about...

What you write Hashi really resonates with me, thank you. I feel too that what I experience is from a disturbed place deeply lodged in my psyche and on a cellular level too, brain wiring etc. I have written down some of my dreams, but inconsistently. I realise that this is my window into...

Hi Anju5, I just wanted to say that it is wonderful that you are reaching out for support. Perhaps through a mental health professional you can be put in contact with a good therapist who is experienced in trauma work? I'm writing from New Zealand, so I'm not sure how your health system works...

So great to be dialoguing like this, thank you for your responses :0) Trauma and how it plays out is so profoundly personal, and until now I have kept a lot to myself, mostly because I couldn't make sense of it. Wow, re. babies being unable to soothe themselves. This is something I wish to...

Hi Hashi, Thanks for your note, and quite understand when stuff comes up that needs to be attended to. This website will be around for a while I can imagine, so no rush. The most important thing is that you are okay. I look forward to hearing from you when the time is right for you. Take care...

Dear Hashi, It was so nice to receive your response! It's the first time I've had the opportunity to dialogue with someone who entered the world in a similar way :) That crucial early bonding time, was instead the experience of a multitude of hospital staff, face after face, coming into view...

Hi there. I've been living with night terrors since a teenager and before that I remember horrible nightmares. These are the jump out of bed, scream, freeze in terror, hallucinate haunting figures/voices variety. Until discovering the term 'night terrors' I was beginning to think that there...