Recent content by dubliner38

I got to ask are yous in counseling of some kind

if he trys to come back dont take him you and your daughter shoulb be treated better. my dad was in and out of my life alot when I was growing up it was hard.

hi. sounds to me like you need to make a stand. treat me right and get help and I will stay here true it whit you or you blame me on it all and leave. I would try well I should say I do try not to lose my self control it gose to hell when I do, if you can stay calm and point it out that ha I...

well thank you all for your points I ll keep them in mind. and we will keep working on our marriage and healing. I have asked my wife to come back to the site after her ban is lifted she wanted to leave and was given a short term ban to give her time to think on it. I told her if she dose we...

they werent about her triggers, it was things i said as a joke that were mean.

what I find i when she gets triggered all sense is gone she will lash out at me because I am safe.then I get hurt I confront her on it that makes it worse and it just rolls from there. its hard to stop it in the moment I belive we both try to stop it to protect our selfs from hurt. my wife has...

love you too zoogal

yes puppy is yours all yours and I hope you can walk him when he is big or you may lol when I get drug down the hill bye 3 dogs

sorry it should say search not such

well such for codependent so I can find out if I have it or what the deal is and I find dis. so I do things like go for walks because I love you and I know it means a lot to you. i pick were we go at weekends most times hearing how it aint right to noise to hilly to flat but ha pick up my boots...

get out go see your family and tell them what is realy happening. you may need to stay there for a bit. ether way leave when he aint there and dont look back. my wife was around 30 when we got married she had kids.

go to your family tell them every thing and never go back to him. my wife had 3 kids when we got toghter I have raised them for around 15 years. he has you traped and he will keep you there. you have to take the jump go to your family and stay there it will be hard but it wil be safe