Recent content by Iworry4him

I needed this thread. My ex suffers from c-ptsd and just ended things with me. For a year and a half we have been best friends and lovers. When we met, we had immediate chemistry, but it turned out there was so much more to us. We had the foundation to make it work. We had a friendship, same...

@Solara , thank you so much for your post! You're very right, he is giving me everything that I need. I guess the label just would make me feel like he really can't imagine life without me. His actions say that he feels that way, but not wanting to actually be in a relationship just confuses me...

Thank you so much! Your response has been very helpful. He want to continue to talk once he leaves. Which includes writing letters, talking via phone and face timing. It's hard fir me to grasp the concept of not wanting something that you know is good for me, but I respect it. Every time that I...

Hi all! I met my Army man about 10 months ago. We did the long distance thing, but he'd never fully commit to me saying that he didn't want a relationship because he just "couldn't deal with it". I've struggled over the past few months because I guess I thought he'd eventually see I was the one...

Thank you so much for the feedback! Everything that you all have said has made me feel a little bitter and allowed me to think some things through. However, I am still not sure what my next steps should be. He has been reaching out to me because he says he wants me in his life and that he...

I met a guy a few months ago and we hit it off right away. There were butterflies and we just clicked. We decided to do the long distance thing and we have had great visits in which we have confirmed that we have a great chemistry. During a visit I learned that he has PTSD from his tours in...