Recent content by Jbustama

Like I said, she struggled communicating about herself. I know she constantly felt that she did not deserve good things in her life and that she also was afraid of things out of her control. Her children were the same way. They struggled outside of their circle, did not make friends easily and...

Can you please explain this?

I felt many times like I was standing on my head. All the weird sexual stuff that I described in my original post sounds like PTSD to me! She definitely had been diagnosed with major depressive disorder her and struggled with that. I guess your advice applies to both. Do you think she still...

I did ask what I could do differently and she would say nothing other than help more in the house. We talked about love languages and we agreed that we both needed to be more understanding and try. I did and she would not. I asked her out on dates all the time, she never wanted to go out and...

It hurts, because I do love her. But, I also understand that if she was not in to me, just let me know. We had gotten together a year after a very hard divorce for me and I had changed over the last couple of years. My main thing was that she would shut down and not communicate. She would tell...

I recently broke up with a beautiful woman who I thought I would be with the rest of my life. We were together almost 5 years. The first year and a half we spent lots of time together, would go out to movies, etc. I moved into her home with her kids and mine who I have 50% of the time. Things...