Recent content by jenjak99

I hear you...i have stuff too. Ive pretty much gathered it up and hidden it for now...mostly because it hurts to look at. Fortunately a lot of it is useful to me, so if he doesnt come around maybe someday ill use those things!

I feel your pain...truly. And in a strange way i almost envy you that he told you that he doesnt want to talk again. Mine has left me kind of hanging for...about a week now. Like totally ghosted me after months together. Very mixed messages like "i think i might want to be single" and "not...

My guy just broke his 9 day silence today. Just said he was sorry for not responding, his mind is still a mess, he needs more time. That's all i needed to know for now. I dont need the details unless he wants to share them. That to me is communicating. I told him to let me know if he needs...

Im fairly new here, having recently discovered that i am a "supporter". I reached out here after nothing else made sense. My boy was very open very early that he had nasty combat ptsd. I thought it basically meant he was like afraid of fireworks. Nope. He would try to express himself: preferred...

I just wanted to say i have bookmarked so many responses from this thread! SO many great insights. One of the top threads i have read thus far.

I have set a date on my calendar 1 week from last nite. It reads on my calendar "you are single". If i have not heard from him wanting to resolve this in 1 week, after only hearing from him once last week, i think that should be sufficient. Now to learn to slap my hands if i am tempted to text...

Hey all, it's me again...already. Im really struggling here and i feel like i have no one to talk to. I just made my first post a couple days ago and i dont want to repeat my whole story...rather...id like tonask some follow ups. After learning many things from these threads i had a change of...