Recent content by Jons99

First off, different districts that are about 30 minutes apart..So the kid in her house isn't even from the same town or district if that matters.. And it was 7 months ago and it's never been brought up And if this is why it mattered so much, she never mentioned it.. Was all about having...

I guess the one thing I didn't mention is her past.. She was married for 9 years, the last 7 years they lived in separate rooms and didn't have sex, he said he didn't want to and then put her down.. She is a good looking woman, typical person our age that needs to lose a few pounds, but still...

Your husband is correct, we are both teachers... :) I guess I didn't think any of it, I have known the kid and his family for years, he is a 17 year old varsity football player.. And she didn't say anything about that, just that I brought a kid over.. And guess I didn't see the night I brought...

I guess I am the opposite, wouldn't bother me at that point.. And if I was sitting at home alone and she thought about me enough for her and her fried to leave the bar and have a drink with me, that would be awesome.. Especially since it was a friend she knew and he had been to her house...

Thanks, and that's what it felt like she was doing, self sabotaging... Things that made no sense... Then she decides to walk and away and then still wants to play online games like Trivia Crack.. After she decided to split, one day she was texting me all morning because she knew I was at the...

So why tell her friend a month before that she had never felt like this about anyone before?

If she had a legit reason, I would have totally bought it... But when the first thing she said was because I like high school football, coming from a teacher that makes no sense.. especially when we had discussed me giving up coaching since it's so time consuming.. With the football kid coming...

I guess it just got weird, said she needed time and space, but then would eventually contact me and then when I responded it led to her getting mad... As far as controlling things and her house, that was just a month after she asked me if I would consider moving in with her down the road...

Maybe you are right, just trust issues... High anxiety also related to that? Sorry if me referring to suffers as "they", didn't realize that was offensive..

She was in a marriage where she was constantly put down.. I guess I assumed is PTSD because one of my college buddies is a psychiatrist and he said it's highly possible that's what it is, but said it could be other things.. She has major anxiety, had unwillingness to open up to me.. So maybe...

Exactly, some of the things she got super upset about made no sense me, normally involving things involving her house.. Another time me and a buddy were at a bar by her house watching a game, her and I were texting and she said she was home alone, super bored.. So I talk my friend into going to...

I absolutely walked on eggshells for her... And I made a few huge mistakes, not sure if she will ever forgive me for that, we haven't talked in about 4 months,, basically I kept pushing and asking for her to let me help her.. I really didn't know any better.. And I know this will get me...

Ex GF said she needed space, I didn't understand and kept pushing for contact... She was in a bad marriage, she told me once she would rather be alone than open up to me.. She said she is seeing someone else (her friend says she is not)... And then when I asked why she is leaving, she said we...

Well the cop did say she didn't want to fill out paper work.. Just got crazy there at the end, she would text me one day and said to never text her again, then two days later she asked me what I am doing.. She asked for 2 months of space, should have just done that regardless of her trying to...

And I do know this, I tried to get her to go to a professional and she refused other than a quick session with someone online.. Guess all I do know is that there is some sort of disorder.. As for me, I am trying to move on but it's tough when you still care for them..