Recent content by Keepingthefaith5

I know this is a few days late, but good for you!!!!

I'm currently in the same spot. Lots of hugs! All you can do now is give it time. My vet randomly pushed me away today because of a misunderstanding on how he perceived my response. Last night we had an amazing time and even in past weeks and months. I'm praying for you and your situation and...

Thank you ladies! I was hopefully, but yet naive that my prsd relationship would end differently. He can't live without me, but doesnt want a relationship? But when I break up with him he won't take it? Oh lord. This time I'm at peace if I do end up walking away. Happy Friday. Hugs back!xo

Thank you for your response! Life just got in the way. With both of us having a new job in the past month and a new puppy, we were spending time with each other, but it was going through the motions. We are in a rut. I voiced how I felt and he did the same. Now, he questions everything and his...

My vet. Going through another rough spot. He tells me he loves. That he's dead inside. That he doesn't want to drag me to this place he is going. That he wants me in his life. Next minute, that he wants to fight for us. That he can't picture is life without me. Then, that he doesn't want to be...

Welcome! What @Lemontree suggested! Hugs!

@ihateusernames Beautifully written. I'm posting from my iPhone so sometimes I can't fully articulate my thought process. I'm glad counseling worked for your relationship! We were also told to take 2 weeks to 30 days off with no communication, we both couldn't agree to that lol. Lasted less...

@Wastinglight Hey! Hope you are doing alright! I know our stories are somewhat similar. Hope the situation has improved for you. Please do not feel bad, you are not at fault here. My vet now went to the extent of putting the fingerprint scan on his phone, he could be hiding something still or...

I've been there in your situation! Can't say anything right, can't do anything right! It's a tough road to navigate, the feeling of walking on eggshells. I usually walk away, give us both some time to cool off, rethink thoughts, recollect. Lots of hugs and love!!

In the same boat! Sexual survivor? Mine is a vet dealing with combat ptsd. We both have an open communication and with his antidepressants , ptsd medication, it is sometimes difficult for him to keep it up or come fast, even to have a desire for sex. We are going to start going to couples...

Hurt himself. I tried ignoring him, cutting contact, and he relied me back in and stopped at my workplace.

@Sighs thats what I say and think, but then he says he can't let me go and im afraid that if i do cut contact, he's going to do something stupid. I'm at a bind. Im suggesting couples counseling.

When confronted with an issue, no matter how small or big, my vet always lies! He knows I know he is lying, but why lie on top of a lie. I just don't get it!!! Blows my mind! Huge character flaw I'm trying to see if I can look past it. Ugh needed to vent.

@Sabrina0712 No worries! No one is perfect. With that being said, your situation sounds more of a personal and "relationship problem" as opposed to a real relationship being directly affected by ptsd and symptoms, whether he is suffering from ptsd. Two, BIG different things. I know you are...

My advice: ptsd or not, let it go. Move on. Best of luck!