Recent content by Lavender

Hi Jimmy, Thank you for your comments. It made me smile, and after being anxiety ridden for at least the last week I really needed that. :) I wrote out a very long reply on forgiveness but deleted it. I re-read it and it was depressing. I don't think any of us needs help to feel depressed...

Thank you for your extensive feedback Anthony. As the owner of this site I understand that it's important to you to let members know that we're all equal here and that we all need to be accepting of each other as we are. I understand your concern with my original post. I got a book on PTSD...

Hi Soxfan, I'm also in other recoveries and am also a PTSD sufferer. It's a very self-loving thing to do to come here and learn how to take care of yourself in your relationship, and I applaud your decision. It shows that you're working well in your other recovery and that you care about your...

Thank you. Your encouragement gives me hope. :)

Thank you to the three responses from Tiger Kitten, Grainne, and onebravegirl to my fear-based post. You know, it didn't even occur to me until I read your responses that deep down I was hoping someone would tell me to leave so I would have an excuse to keep running. It's been difficult not to...

I was reading one of the threads that had been moved to where the members are allowed to share, and I have some thoughts that I really want to share but I'm not allowed to speak in that area yet. That's really frustrating for me, and so I feel the need to do it here. I read a few of the posts...

Hi Everyone. I signed up here in September (that's what the site said the other night but now it's saying December ... either way it's time to say hi lol) and haven't said a word till now. It's true that I've worried about being judged. I suppose most of us know that feeling, if not all of...