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I understand. I guess I’m grasping at straws here. I am hoping once he’s back home he continues his treatment and realizes what he did.

Not really

Thank you. I’m completely heartbroken

I just really love him and I’m worried about him. Was it wrong to tell him that I love him and I’m here if he needs to talk?

I agree

Makes sense

No but I worry that he’s not thinking clearly.

If it’s true love why not reach out when he was single over the last 8 yrs?

I get the cheating part and appreciate your perspective. I just don’t know why he’d tell me he loves me, introduce me to his daughter & comment that this might be the biggest mistake of his life

Yes totally impulsive. This is someone he met during a deployment 8 yrs ago. His personality has completely flipped. I did message him that I loved him snd I’d be here if he needs to talk

Yes it’s very new and he had told the therapist she was wrong and he didn’t have it

The hardest part is he was robotic when he told me. He’s still at the va. She doesn’t live anywhere near us and he told me he’s might be making the biggest mistake of his life

Maybe I should have mentioned he hasn’t seen or spoken to this person in 8 yesrs

Some background info. He’s is army Special Forces and has deployed many times. He is in a 4 week inpatient program out of state through the VA. We’ve been together for 8 months and are in love & committed. He was diagnosed with PTSD within the first few days of treatment. Over the weekend...