Recent content by Melly13

I havnt heard from him since that call. I still miss him every day. My heart weaps

He knew it was me. We are friends. I stood by him the last 9 months thru almost loosing his home and listened we were more then friends for several months but to fast to quick.. but he settles finances with home and then takes of CO. I don't think he remembered telling me his ex wanted him to...

So after almost a month of not hearing from him; he calls... He tells me he just got home from Colorado vacation. I know from previous his ex wanted to fly him out to visit. Then he tells me that he caked me by mistake and was calling his mom. It rang 4 times before I picked up u know who u...

I still have not heard a thing.... he called last Saturday night but nothing was said when I answered was just silence. Dealing and healing. I'd be lying if I said I was not sad but nothing I can do

Yes I am human lol ..it's just eating me up inside. Not his girlfriend but very close we are just keeping it at a friend level at this point because we got close to quick and neither of us were ready. But he is very special to me. I just couldn't drop it for days. So I know it pushed to far...

I blew it and am feeling horrible. My sufferer has his own issues. But last week I vented to him about something unrelated to him triggers of my own past. that I realized after he was not able to handle. and have not heard from him since. He closes out. I then apologized and nothing. And instead...

aww your welcome. Well I have not heard from him yet but saw an update online his house auction has been positioned. sigh of relief for him.. I don't know what will happen from here but I am going to give him space until he reaches out..I guess I may never fully understand why close off and its...

True friends are hard to come by in any situation. I myself have lost many friends who could understand my way of healing after a difficult time as well. Last time I was "closed out" I would just remind him I was there. But I push because I was not fully understand yet. Still learning. But I...

Let me rephrase this.. I know can not fix him nor do I want to. Just support

yes I am 100% positive I have been blocked. I could care less like I said It's facebook. we weren't FB friends. I'm just confused as why take that additional step. To distance himself from me Is all I can think

Thank you. Yes I truly do. I am a fixer type. I can fix this nor him. And getting to know him and about him has made me such a better person.

Morning, I am preping myself to be closed out. My dear friend is going thru a very difficult time and is on verge of loosing his home. He had called me last night to make sure I knew what was going on and that he wasn't trying to ignore me and close me out. His home is going for auction today...

Hi, So I met the man with PTSD back in February and just started out as a hook up but we would talk text etc daily. We both had boundaries we did not want to cross as both were no ready for relationship. Well boundaries were crossed come May. Istarted spending 3- 4 nights a week at his house we...