Recent content by Msconfused

So glad I found this forum when I did. You all are so positive. I caved today and sent a valentine quote to my vet today. After i did I felt sick to my stomach, like I should not have done that. I then panicked and sent a text after and apologized for crossing the line and I just wanted him...

Why is it that all sufferers feel that the relationship is a stressor? That they need to eliminate? I get the jobs, school issues, however, doesn't the relationship give love, companionship, and help in all other ways? Why do you look at is as a stressor? I just feel like a relationship could...

I just need to learn how not to take it personally. That's very hard, something I will have to continue to work on. I am a person, cause of my own issues and insecurities who needs reassurance and love. So I have a lot of work. Day by day. I will continue to go to therapy an work on myself...

Thanks for your advice. I text him exactly what you said this morning and within minutes he text back. In fact, he gave me his sisters phone number too. So, there is some communication now, but I won't push it. I will now let him call or text me. Thank you.

My main concern was the medication, that's when the change started. He never treated me so cold and was so distant to me. He was the one pushing for this relationship. He goes to the VA for therapy and has told me what a joke it is. He wanted me to go with him cause he said it's not therapy...

Thanks, I to am a person who wants to help. The funny thing is he has told me around Christmas time when we went shopping at the mall if he started to panic what I needed to do to help him, so, he does trust me enough to help him. This is why I don't understand why now this time it's...

Fadeaway, do these isolation periods happen offen? I know people are stating it depends on stress and major issues, but I am just trying to figure out how many times people are going through this. I mean, in a normal relationships you have ups and downs and you get through it. So, I am just...

Thank you so much. This is such a learning experience.

Sorry for this post, did not realize the post above went through.