Recent content by Patience my dear

Thank you for your response. I definitely think this distance is a good idea...I actually think that if it had happened a bit sooner and not as a result of a fight, then there would be less uncertainty and confusion on my part. My children come first and with what they're going through, the last...

No, what you're saying makes perfect sense. I just meant that his pushing someone away that loves him doesn't, but I know it's just his way of coping. He is constantly saying I'm sorry I don't mean to hurt you when I don't get the responses from him I want or he thinks I want. The sad part is...

I just don't understand what that even means...he's never been violent towards me or even made me think that he was going to. It's almost like he doesn't think he's worthy of being loved in his entirety. He's told me repeatedly that no one has been as good to him as I am and that he cares about...

my boyfriend of a year and a half has PTSD. He did seek treatment about 8 years ago when he first got home, but he was prescribed Xanax by the bucket loads which he took in excess and began drinking a lot. I didn't not know him back then, but know that during that time he isolated to a cabin in...