Recent content by Plakfiter

@hangingon I did start out with the right boundaries, keeping them is harder. Thanks friends!

Agreed......

Thanks friends. Just needed some clarity.

I suppose it came naturally to want to remain friends. We get along well and felt like friends when we were dating. I wasn't looking for someone when I met him and am not actively looking for anyone now. I'm not opposed to dating someone else if I met someone interesting but my connection here...

Might be lily pad but he also says I deserve better than him. He tells me he was hurt/dumped in his last 2 serious relationships. I gave the benefit of the doubt on that, the other woman may feel safer. I don't think the cheating is PTSD, more of a self-esteem and insecurity from it?

I met a retired Army CSM about 6 wks ago and we clicked immediately. Short story is, I saw him out with another woman and confronted him in the moment. He's a great guy so I elected to be a grown up and talk about it with him. We hadn't discussed being exclusive and I told him that if we were...