Me and ptsd vet were being intimate last night and in the middle of it he stops and asks me if I’m ready to do anal. I’ve told him numerous times that I don’t like it and that it hurts; I didn’t answer him. He asked me again but told me this time it’s either I do it or he leaves. At this point I...
Thank you. That very much clears up the black or white thinking. As I thought that was something more aligned with BPD. These forums are such a relief to me in not feeling like I’m going crazy. Feeling like I’m being gaslit and manipulated. I understand that I also need the counseling for myself...
I don’t mean to diagnose him, as I know that’s not something I’m qualified for. And I hope I’m not insulting anyone else who does suffer from PTSD. This is just my first time seeing it from this degree. I do love him very much and am just trying to do my best for him and for myself, as this is...
yes he’s good for black and white thinking. If I do something that he doesn’t like or say something he doesn’t like. BAM. He breaks up with. Says I’ll never change. I’m the villain. Because I did something that hurt him. There’s been times I’ve asked him if he could not wear so much cologne...
I’ve been friends with and dated a retired marine; Honorably discharges due to a head wound, for about a year on and off and in that time he’s either decided to cut me off or break up with me a handful of times. And alway comes back. He told me when we first met he had ptsd and I understood...