Recent content by Rune

Thanks to all, Must admit that it has been awesome being able to vent. Thanks to Docs Gal for your comments and Leira for being able to give me a type of time frame. And I must say I am realising I need to do my things as she goes through hers. I refuse to put my life on hold or that of our gr8...

Thanks Leira, yes well my wife has said that she has been healed of her past but then all this has come up. I suppose ever since the suicide of her brother last year. She has only been diagnosed in the last two months. Not too sure as she doesn't talk to me much. Intimacy well I have been in the...

Thanks Anthony.

Yes hmmmm. Many good points to ponder. To Leira thank you for your comments, and yes I definately feel that I am not appreciated. My wife use to tell me that she still loved me and that would often be sufficient to go the next mile but even that is gone. Although she did buy me a drink in the...

Thank you Anthony. I just finished reading your page. Very informative and thank you for your frankness. I will stick to the rules. My wife has just been diagnosed with PTSD. Is the frankness a part of this? Anyway I too am ozzie. Northern NSW a place called Gulmarrad near Yamba on the Clarence...

Thanks to everybody and thanks for the heads up in relation to the posts. Sorry I am new to this. At the moment I am just trying to keep myself in some kind of balance in regards to being understanding and supportive and not falling into the pit of despair and thinking, "I don't deserve this...

Thanks to all of you for your kind words. Well where do I start ?????? When I married my wife I knew to a degree what I was getting into but it has been going on for soooo long and I am getting tired. I took on her daughter from a previous relationship, paid her ex partners gambling debt which...

Hello...I have been married for 18 years now and my wife has ptsd. I have dealt with alot over the last 18 years and now I am lumped with this. Seems like I am paying for everyones elses crap they did to my wife since she was two. All my wife can say to me is: "Just be my friend" hey even...