Recent content by Sassy4444

I absolutely agree. I'm not screwing around here. We talked and he stopped the medication that he was reacting too as well as I told him we need professional help if this has a chance of working. So we are starting counseling at the VA as soon as we can get an appt.

He and I MET on a dating site. He's not on it anymore. He's not cheating. He can barely keep up with me☺

Not one bit concerned about him cheating. He never cheated?? That's not even a concern of mine.

I figured out the problem! I can't believe I didn't put the pieces together sooner. His dr started him on depakote about 2 weeks ago. It's a mood stabilizer for his headaches. Anyway.....total bad reaction to the stuff. When I figured it out, I told him to STOP taking it and call the dr. asap...

And now my daughter is crying. She commented that she hasn't seen him lately and I broke down I told her there was a possibility he might be moving out, and she started sobbing. Said "but he's a big part of our family "....I can't do this to her. I feel like the most irresponsible parent right...

I'm just lost. He's playing games. I think he's trying to make me so mad that I kick him out. Which seems cowardly to me. He's avoided me (and my daughter) last night and he's not home again yet tonight. I love him, I really do, but my daughter is my priority. I can't afford to f*ck up...

After my post last night, my bf came home and I tried my ass off to have a conversation. He would not look at me or engage in any discussion about our relationship. I'm really sad today and feeling heart broken. I've not felt this way since high school. And I'm 44, divorced...I'm feeling...

All good points. We tried to talk last night, but he just sat there and said "what do you want me to say", and short yeah, no and I dunno answers. Sigh....still no resolution.

EXACTLY That's one of my concerns as well. Not to mention how crushed she'll be if he moves out. I feel like I really screwed up letting him move in.

Oh boy....where to start? In Dec 2014 I got divorced. It wasn't ugly, we just grew apart and decided to split. We have a now 9 year old who spends half of her time with me. Soon after my divorce I met a cute, younger guy on a dating site. He was very polite and didn't do all the crap most guys...