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    3 wishes

    You have friends on here. You have a good heart.
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    What Song Are You Listening To Right Now?

    I woke up this morning to "something just like this" playing in my head. I hadn't listen to the song for quite some time. I guess it came into my consciousness that I want someone who's not looking for More than I'm capable of. i'm going to have to figure out how to add the link.
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    Name three living public people that you find to be inspirational

    I've really been enjoying reading about the incredible people that I haven't heard of, living in my protected bubble, that people have been posting. Thank you!
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    Views on boycotting - Can you admire the work of someone who did something bad? Can you separate personal from business?

    I agree with you @Sideways. I think I just got triggered. Thinking of how people can make assumptions about another's behavior. How do we stop this stuff before it happens? I guess it was my appeal to the universe that we need to find ways to detect and stop abuse. Again, a lofty goal...
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    Views on boycotting - Can you admire the work of someone who did something bad? Can you separate personal from business?

    Michael Jackson is an interesting one... I love the heart in his music, like man in the mirror. I found myself wondering what kind of childhood trauma he went through that would cause him to pursue little boys. He was obviously deprived of a normal childhood. So, as an adult he never was...
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    Views on boycotting - Can you admire the work of someone who did something bad? Can you separate personal from business?

    I love that you brought up Ghandi. We are highly complex people. We, here, have strong similarities in life experiences that shape our perspectives. I prefer to believe that everyone has blind spots, where through lack of life experience, ignorance or focused insensitivity they minimize...
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    Name three living public people that you find to be inspirational

    That is sad @Survivor3 they were all incredible musicians! Beautiful. I love it when I hear about, new to me, great humanitarians. I should have added that their impact is still alive! I was binge listening to Hendrix recently.
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    Name three living public people that you find to be inspirational

    You never disappoint @mumstheword ! :) Isn't it interesting how similar our (this group) paths can be? I LOVE it :) All beautiful people that deserve a purple streak in their hair ... :)
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    Name three living public people that you find to be inspirational

    I love your choices! :)
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    Name three living public people that you find to be inspirational

    I absolutely love it @Annalyn78 ! Beautiful! Beautiful :hug:
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    Name three living public people that you find to be inspirational

    I was thinking about the current political divide and was hoping that this might provide some optimism. I really hope that this idea doesn't backfire on me... :blackeye: it's okay if it just fizzles away... it's not trauma related, but I believe that HOPE is a big thing for all of us! 1)...
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    3 wishes

    I have only one wish. That there was a way to tell, at first sight, if someone was: kind, compassionate, empathetic, loving, that they would give it their all to resolve every conflict in the most peaceful manner possible. When they did something wrong they were capable of being accountable...
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    What helps you connect to your feelings?

    My latest book is Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents. It has helped me to understand the parts of me that are unbalanced. It's also helped me to set expectations of what I can expect from others. The Tao of Fully Feeling has helped with seeing others emotional potential based on...
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    What helps you connect to your feelings?

    It's good that you can be around them during this virus time. Some of my most enjoyable conversations have been with wise elderly women and men to a lesser degree. :-)
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    How to use triggers as a means to recovery?

    Your words really resonate! I have made large strides towards not going too fast, but as you've read, it's not easy for me. I create this imaginary perfect match and my intensity would push them away. I've realized that it's my emotionally starved for human contact ( hand holding, snuggling...
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