Recent content by Slw4789

Thank you all for your input, being on here reading other stories and having support really helps.I hope he wont wait until he deploys to contact me, he still has a key to my house and stuff here anyway so if he isn't coming back he will have to get his stuff at some point. I love him and I am...

That is what my therapist thinks, she used to work at the VA with ptsd patients so I trust her but I may discuss this more with her next week because I agree with you I think he still has so much on his mind he just can't deal right now. I think she is trying to look out for me too because she...

I have not seen my SO in 3 weeks and tomorrow would have been 2 weeks of not talking to him. I went to my therapist today and she suggested I contact him and just ask him how he was doing. So I did, he replied back within 5 minutes and said "im ok how are you". I then texted him back(with my...

Yes I have considered the fact that this may not be ptsd and he just needs space and time to think and get over his marriage but you have no right to talk to me like I am an idiot or tell me I am obsessing over things. I do have hobbies, I do go out with my friends, I try to do everything I can...

Your post sounds exactly like what I am going through, 1 year of being together never any problems then he started getting depressed around Veterans day. After that it was one stressful thing after another that piled up then one day he told me he needed space. I was so confused, like you I...

I am glad that he is posting and reaching out i just wish he would reach out to me too. I am the only person he is isolating from and it hurts, I haven't seen him in 2 weeks and haven't talked to him in over a week. I am afraid to contact him because 1 week after he left, before I learned about...

In my mind I know is is my GAD making me think irrationally but what set me off is those emotion things you can post that say feeling...and you put whatever you are feeling, he put that he was feeling blessed, accomplished, and confident, didn't say anything else. Like I said I worry about...

I guess I am thinking in my standpoint that I don't post anything on facebook that isn't real, my moods included. I guess in the back of my mind i know other people dont do that but i am a very honest person so it is hard for me to think that way. I try to think of it as not real but it is hard...

Let me start by saying I absolutely hate Facebook! I'm not really sure if this is a question or I just need to vent. My sufferer has been in isolation for 2 weeks now but it seems to only be from me, on his Facebook page it looks like he is leading his normal life and nothing is wrong. He never...

@Sighs yes it does! Thank you for showing me this!

Thank you all for your feedback and support. Right now I think he just has no clue what is going on with him, to my knowledge he has never been diagnosed with ptsd(if he has he never told me he only said he was in anger management/counseling at the VA) and I know he knows there is a problem but...

I recently posted a thread asking questions about isolation and some people got offended that I said "they" and my thread eventually got locked. I did not mean to offend anyone I am totally new to all of this and I am just trying to get a handle on things that I could expect or not expect from...

I am new to ptsd and am trying hard to understand everything that goes along with it. Right now my boyfriend(?) has moved out and wants to have no contact with me while he needs space, my question is what do other sufferers do when they isolate themselves? Where do they go? Do they move out...

Hi Sarah05, I'm a Sarah too! Thank you so much for your input it makes me feel a lot better that I am doing the right thing for right now and does give me some more insight on how he could be thinking. The therapist I am going to see uses to work at the VA with ptsd sufferers so I am hoping she...

Thank you all for your opinions, as far as if I think he loves me, I look back on the past year everything that we have been through the way he acted towards me, even up to the day before he left he never stopped telling me he loved me and I want to hold on to that. We never had any major...