Recent content by swtdixegrl

I'm so sorry you are going through this. I am in a similar situation and it breaks my heart that I get shut out and pushed away when all I want to do is be there for him. I am not afraid of the PTSD but I can't handle the shutting me out. I like you am either all in or nothing at all. I don't...

Wow. This is exactly how I am. I am slowly learning that I can't fix, save, nor heal everyone as bad as I want to. I was married for 17 yrs to a narcissistic asshole and always stayed thinking i could change him. Little did i know that he had complete control of me. I finally got the strength...

That's what I think as well. Very manipulative behavior. There truely is no excuse for it. And I am the one left bearing the pain and the scars. But I am a strong person and I will push through it. One day he will wake up and realize he lost the moon while too busy chasing the stars. He is going...

Thank You guys for all the responses. I do know that "cheating" is no excuse for anyone. But there's so much more to it. He always asks me "Why are you so good to me?" "Why do you love me?" He thought of himself as a monster and he said he wasn't good enough for me and could never be the man I...

I know for a fact he served. That part is the truth. I'm beginning to think that is the only thing he has been honest about. What kills me is how he can have no empathy and lie to me. Knowing I gave my all to this man. Gave him my heart. My youngest son lives with me and he got attached to him...

Hell no I'm not okay with him living with this other girl. I am slowly learning he has been lying to me since August. Really I feel he is using me and can't make up his mind what he really wants. I do feel manipulated. I was previously married for 17 years and have 3 boys. But the ex husband was...

Hey guys. I am new here and really don't know where to begin this but need some advice and support and better understanding of this. I'm going to try and make a long story short. I have been in a relationship with a guy since November 2015. He was my high school crush and I never acted on it. 10...