Recent content by TinaG

I understand your frustration completely, I decided last night to walk away, it hurts but its not healthy for me either, I was wrapped up in him & not thinking of me. I never received ore then I'm sorry, you deserve better. So I'll do just that get my mind back together & let him sort out his...

Thank you @Atomic I have been throwing myself into my work, children, and whatever else it takes to keep my self sane. @Sweetpea76 I do understand I have to deal with it. I just wish I had something from him. I'm at peace knowing I could wait forever for him, my scare is that he won't come back...

That is true. I feel that he's worth the wait, but if he has no intention of getting back to where we were then it'd be easier to deal with. I'm just stuck in the unknown

Thank you! I appreciate your advice, it helps tremendously :) the last thing he said to me was he was truly sorry & that I deserve better so I'm just wondering if that was him letting go and if I'm holding on for nothing

Do any of y'all have any advice about getting through the withdrawal stage? I don't mean to sound selfish but I am really struggling tonight & miss my guy & its so hard without him saying anything! I want so badly to text him or call him but don't want him to push farther away! I've tried...

I understand where your coming from, I feel deep down that I've lost him but I can only trust the plan God has given me. Either way I will always care and if he decides to reach out, I'll be here waiting. It's definitely hard!

I'm going on 36 hours! I wanted so badly to text him today, but I think about all the advice here saying not to and the last thing I'd want is to push him farther away. But I'm with you it certainly sucks, I'm petrified he isn't going to come back to me all I can do is allow him the time he...

Thank you so much it does mean a lot, I'll take it, I've been doing a lot of praying myself. I recently started dating a 8 year vet who did two tours in Iraq. We spent a wonderful valentines day together & then I felt him pulling away, when i asked him if it was something I did he assured me...

I like that everyone here brings comfort to other's. I am new to this and everyone's advice has been so helpful!! it's been so difficult not to make any contact but I understand why I can't now thanks to you all. I believe in us & we'll get through this ❤

I really care for him, he's been so good to me! We had a wonderful valentines day together and then he slowly started pulling away. I feel selfish because I ask why, he said he has had phases sense retiring home from Iraq. I'll never understand how he feels, I just hate he's pushing me away. I...

Thank you Heather. I knew that I need to give him his time.

My boyfriend recently shut me out, what I've read is that's its called isolation? He said he needed time & because I care so much for him I will give him space although it hurts terribly!! My question is I'm new to this & this is a new relationship can someone tell me how long this last (I'm...

I too feel selfish because I know I'll never know how he's feeling, I decided today that I would step back he assured me its not me but all he could say is I need time. I will do that because I care for him, I just hope he sees later that I want to be there for him.