Recent content by Toto2

Blue_eyes18 thank you for your warm empathy and guidance. It really moves me to read posts like that. It's so very difficult to keep my boundaries in place when I want to be understanding, supportive and not a stressor or trigger for him. But you are so right, I will likely implode. We tried...

Thank you Rising Sun. Your words ring true and I am doing my best to distance myself from him. Things already feel different now that I have been told explicitly that he won't be able to support me. I don't have the energy to cry over it, I just hope that the feelings will subside naturally and...

Thank you both for your replies. Shortly after posting I received a message from him asking that we meet to talk. He admitted that he was troubled by the thought of this scenario repeating itself and questioning if we are continuing because it is easier rather than looking at the bigger...

Hi, This is my first post. My boyfriend who suffers from PTSD and I have been together for just over a year now. Initially after dating for a month, he got cold feet and couldn't continue, then gradually we got to know each other as just friends and before we knew it, we had fallen in love and...