Recent content by TryinToHeal

It’s not ourselves that need to die; it’s our egos that need to die. In other words, we need to stop trying to “figure things out” with doctors and medication and fit our heads through the door of a STRONG 12-step meeting and then accept and work through the 12 steps in order to heal. The...

For most of us, even if you don’t believe it, we are not “mentally ill”…we are just suffering. Labeling everything as a mental illness is a road I don’t go down today…seeking a solution in pills etc…there is no pill for Humanism. Humanism is really what it is. Humanism means that life has simply...

Oh, come on. We’ve come too far in society now not to know that this is a spiritual problem. We will NOT suffer with these things for our whole lives. That’s telling people there’s no way out, when there is one. There’s a solution to this stuff and it doesn’t lie in spending thousands of dollars...

During my spiritual journey I’ve had to let go of all abusive people. However, we do recover fully from the affects, if we have a program of recovery, a certain type that is powerful enough to work through the past. As an adult child of 2 devastatingly abusive narcissists, I made amends to them...

It's about getting the right help. Deep in your heart you know where that help is -- even if it's the last place you want to go. Hint: it has nothing to do with psychiatry.

Stop stalking him and let it go. You're only hurting yourself more. Every time you show up at his store or text him you are throwing away another piece of your Power. We have to learn to sit with pain. We have to learn to forgive ourselves and stop trying to be perfect. Everyone gets...

You might want to read a book called The unteathered Soul. The author talks about the thorns that are hit in us - and what to do when that happens. I forget the authors name but he was recently on Oprah's OWN network and the interview was amazing. You might even be able to Google a video of...

Could this really be about you. It getting your needs met as a child? Being withheld from and controlled - and now you see your wife doing this to your children? Have a backbone and stand up to her. Kids NEED to be allowed to be kids. McDonald's every six weeks is not going to kill them but...

She is very vulnerable right now and you may be too, although neither of you might realize this. I would be very careful with each other. I don't suggest people getting together unless they're both on solid ground. Without knowing really what we're doing, this is the type of relationship where...

Once I know a man or woman's true nature isn't good or strong, I don't keep setting myself up. I know they just can't help it. The exception is if there is a sincere apology and the other person is really willing to try to grow with me. My rule of thumb is I don't put expectations on humans. I...

My tai How does this person who harms you get access to you? How does he get near you?