Recent content by Twinkles28

I appear to receive the opposite my sufferer (currently awol and shut down) has never raised his voice to me, never said a bad word or blamed me for anything, not put me down and never been angry in a way that's been directed at me it's always directed onto himself. The common themes of him...

Thanks for the replies guys! I appreciate it. @glass half full He has had CBT and EMDR which have helped but not much hence the meds to work in conjuction with treatment, probably for 6 months at say 1 session a month. I feel he is at a stage now where he wants to get better, he wants to...

Thanks for your reply @mr_smith_v2, it makes sense!. In our relationship there was never any cheating etc, I guess that came after some time apart but the realisation of it when the person you love said they cannot be in a relationship is heart wrenching. I guess I have set some boundaries but...

Hi guys, It's been a very long time since I posted. I think my 'ex' is coming back to me...as I write this I am filled with emotion and confusion... A brief synopsis: We split 10 months ago; everything was amazing and one day he literally vanished...he was a mess, I did not recognise him and...

@Whispering_Truth Hello ☺️ Thank you for the welcome

Thank you so much for taking the time to reply @LuckyDuck!. I too am now beginning to believe it's fear also; I seen my ex partner recently for the first time since the split, it was extremely emotional and it's very obvious we still love each other, however; he is terrified he is going to...

(That posted before I finished, sorry)...and following the return of self-worth and the 'numb' feeling leaving; are you inclined to be led back to the person you left behind when you had a solid, happy and loving relationship? I know that may be impossible to answer thanks again ☺️

Thank you for taking the time to reply!. I really appreciate it. I guess I'm at the point where I just feel confusion. I agree wholly with what you're saying, that my partner needs time to heal and I have always encouraged that as a priority but I guess what is making this hurt all the more...

Hi guys Please bear with me; I'm new to this site/forum. I have read many of your threads over the past few months whilst on a journey educations myself further on the condition in which my partner sufferers with and the time has finally come to post myself. I am basically at the end of my...