Recent content by user47718

I know all that rationally, the heart is another matter. I know that i will be better off in the long run because he could never "be there for me" dependably. He literally struggled everyday with one symptom or another. It would have happened eventually at another time of conflict or challenge...

I can't tell if you are a sufferer or supporter? Have you ever "split on someone? ghosted after many months of a loving relationship?

I know... I just miss him!! He totally blocked me and disappeared after 8 months of trying to get to know each other better. I even offered to go to therapy with him if that was a possibility. I care about him very much and would just love an email or something- anything but ... poof. So sad...

Well I guess ine can always hope for a better outcome but I do know some history of his relationships and this is a quote from him back when he still communicated with me a few months ago <mod edit to remove quoted private communication> Whatever coping mechanisms they are trying to teach him...

like Communication...there can be no relationship without it and if the kind of issues that can be talked through cause you to SPLIT from the whole relationship- Black and wht. - right or wrong, good or evil - no gray area thinking. You will just do it again in the next relationship. More of...

did not mean to pry or ask details- just wondered if the trauma was in childhood. I ask because I believe it is very different to trauma when it happens to adults.

My comments should not have quotes around them. I guess I didn't understand the formatting on here but it looks like the quotes are around what I meant them to be, now anyway. Why do I want to know if they ring true?- Because it helps me to know that I am not alone in trying to understand what...

I think I will ask you all If quotes that I got from here and other places ring True to you. I prefer people dealing with C- PTSD since the man I was involved with was dealing with this- along with BPD < I believe for sure. I believe C< complex PTSD is different in many ways - more quotes I...

Do you have COMPLEX PTSD?? do you have COMPLEX PTSD? From childhood trama?

Do you isolate Eve? I am saddened to learn of all who have basically had their brains “rewired” by childhood trama. From what I read Complex PTSD has different issues than PTSD that happens to adults. My guy (ex) is one of the sweetest people I have ever known- unfortunately he Cannot handle...

Apparently there is some issue with posting from both my PC and my phone

He never told me it was a group thing- yes I assume he thought I rejected him- but it was quite the opposite- I wanted alone time with him . Sadly he has never communicated with me again 3 months since- nada . I am totally unaccustomed to that behavior! I try to be on good terms with everyone...

We were well past the friends stage , and had been out to shows - just us which is why I thought this particular event would also be - just us . He “split” on me as soon as I respectfully decided I didn’t want to go. He has never communicated with me since. Right in the middle of our text . I...

we are broken up now ,only because i changed my mind about a concert he asked me to that I thought was just us, but it was with others - I am pretty sure I have typed this to you before! Am I right? He blocked me the 1st time he had a breakdown (in our time together) and ghosted me for a week...

Today I just found out for sure that when he Disappeared off Facebook early July- that it was only from me. I thought he could not handle all that comes with Facebook - but it was just me he blocked . For 3 months ... I never asked .... never even thought he would do something like that without...