Recent content by vleon

Morrissey - First of the Gang to Die

For dinner I had potatoes, carrots and red onions roasted in the oven, fried slices of halloumi cheese, cooked cauliflower, half an avocado, some small tomatoes and a sauce made of creme fraiche, feta cheese, garlic, honey and some spices. I thought I took a photo of the whole thing, but I guess...

Eiko Ishibashi - Drive My Car (Kafuku)

I have never thought of photography as a hobby for me. Maybe because it has been my mother's domain. She can take great pictures with the simplest of cameras without knowing anything about composition and exposure. I have an interest in graphic design and web design, so naturally, I wanted to...

That's a red flag. He knows you have been sexually abused, yet he chooses to be physical when he gives you directions.

Wild Nothing - Paradise This is probably my most listened to song on Spotify.

The biggest issue here, as I see it, is that your husband isn't acknowledging his own mental health issues. It's hard, if not impossible, the help someone who doesn't want to be helped. So what should you do? Try to have a talk with your husband. Turn off the TV and go for a walk together. Tell...

Suzanne Vega - Luka

I think it's a bad idea trying to reconnect with your parents. I just finished reading your heartbreaking diary thread (as it is one of the shorter ones) and you write about how your parents denied what your late grandfather did to you. I think it's dangerous for anyone's mental health to be...

“Sexual desire presents us with a choice; adoration or appetite, love or lust. Lust is about taking, but love is about giving.” Sir Roger Scruton

ROME - One Lion's Roar My favorite song when doing heavy squats

That's great, that your friends would take your side. Cheers to that! 🥂 If I had a partner that had suffered from abuse from a parent, it would be painful for me to see her interact with the abusing parent if the abuse had not been acknowledged by the parent, followed by all the hard work to...

Elliott Smith - Angeles

Thinking about this girl at the grocery store two days ago when I was buying ice cream. I was looking for a cola popsicle in the freezer and there were some food delivery documents (?) on top of the freezer. So she appears from nowhere (she's an employee there) and tries to grab these documents...