Recent content by wildflower

She is NOT BPD. I am in the education field and deal with difficult children, so I have read the book. Usually when anyone says the phrase,"walking on eggshells", the very first thing out of their mouth is about the book. I was just heading it off before it came up. She is a PTSD sufferer...

Angel, I agree with you about the not knowing what the future holds. I stated in an earlier post that, I take things day by day. But like you, I know I want my partner in my life and I am here when she wants or needs my support. The past few days have been better, but not by far where we were...

I am having to take this day by day! Her level of communication is getting better. I do not know where our relationship will take us, whether it be partners or just friends. But, I do know that I love her enough that I want her in my life no matter the "status". Our relationship did not happen...

Fin, thank you and I did not take anything negatively. I came here to understand our relationship and how to support her. You were correct, I don't know what to think or feel about this. It is hard watching someone that I love, sit emotionless, when just a few months ago she was full of life. I...

Angel, thank you for sharing that post! My gf is in her withdrawal stage, and I pushed with questions yesterday! I did nothing but push her further away! Your post and the reply of others is giving me again a new found hope of happiness. I know this road is not going to be smooth, but rather...

Once again, WOW!!! You are all so helpful in these posts. I have learned so much in one day from this site, than I have in the past 2 months reading different websites about the actual disorder. The giving the sufferer space comment is something I am really working on. I find myself just...

Wow, Nicolette!!! Thank you!!! You have made me think about some things within myself today. I joined this forum today, after searching for so many answers to questions that seem to never have the answer. I have read so many things that have hit home on here. I won't say that I know what I...

Wow, I read the deal breaker question and the impact on relationships posted by Nicolette and I understand many things. In many ways my relationship with my partner was summed up in that post. Except, we have good days and bad days. We started dating a year ago, and like many of the post on...