Recent content by Woundedhealer

Awe ... I’m so happy for you! I had to walk away from my guy cause the silence was deafening. But I am very happy for you! Thank you for sharing! I wish you the best of luck and strength as you go through this journey!

i think those that try to commit suicide or actually succeed are some of the most empathetic and compassionate people walking this earth... feeling so so much and lightning up others because they know what it’s like to live in darkness... my heart is hurting for these souls who hurt so much that...

Wow ... I really admire you all for being able to share and I thank you for the thought put into your comments! Wishing everyone peace within your souls and hearts and the strength to hang on another day! ❤️

It sucks that people who are feeling like they want to end their lives can’t confide that to their therapists without fear of being institutionalized! It makes it so they can’t truly open up and isn’t that what therapy is for? But they have to walk around with this dark secret and no one to turn...

One of my students committed suicide this past week. We are all in shock as we thought she was so happy and grounded after so many years of turmoil. What is bothering me the most is to hear people say that she is a coward and selfish for doing what she did and I’m over here saying f*ck that...

I also want to add that once you forgive yourself for whatever you did or didn’t do, then others reactions whether it be supportive or not won’t matter anymore cause YOUVE decided that it’s just a part of your past, and part of who you are TODAY! No one has the right to judge as we are all human...

I love that you wrote this and my honest opinion and keep in mind it’s my opinion only ... us supporters just want to understand and be there for you as best as we can. How can we understand if you don’t tell us? Keep in mind that our brains may be wired differently than yours so ya we want the...

This is very interesting and I think where loving without attachment comes in. I’d be lying if I said I didn’t hope that my guy didn’t think of me when we’re not together but I equate missing with sadness and unfulfilled. I know he’s going through enough already so I wouldn’t want him to be sad...

My guy is only capable of short visits every 10 days or so with little to no contact in between. He’ll call randomly and ask to see me and we’ll spend some time together but how he feels each time can vary. last night he said he can’t do emotions right now but that he was gonna go to bed but...

Hope is a wonderful thing as long as we don’t put our happiness in someone else’s hands! And trust me ... I did the heartbreak, couldn’t eat or sleep or even get outta bed ... so I say this after having worked through MY stuff ... much love to you too love! Sending you strength ❤️

I didn’t read the whole thread so I hope I’m not repeating but really yummy, easy, quick dinner... Pork chops, rice and cream of mushroom soup with garlic and onion ... takes like 20 minutes tops! Add whatever your favourite veg is :)

Thanks everyone for sharing your stories... it’s been over a week now since my love came to my house after a couple of months of nothing. I think at the end of the day if you can really understand that it’s not about us then that’s where the letting go comes in and becomes easier. It doesn’t...

so after almost a month of not hearing from my guy, he contacted me last night. He ended up coming over and we talked for hours. He really is just struggling with life but he says he loves me and misses me and he just doesn’t want to hurt me and feels like he can’t give me what I deserve. I said...

Thank you for sharing! It’s hard to remember sometimes that it’s not about us and you’re absolutely allowed to have your space!!! Sending strength ❤️

Well said!