Recent content by Zeekayk

I finally admitted it to my husband and after doing so that I'd realized its a big issue. So i grew up with a mom that continuously chose an abusive husband (dad) over me/us (my sisters) ... i kept begging her for her love and attention, but she would even tell me she doesn't love me and she...

I would recommend the book by Pete walker - c-ptsd it helped me a lot. Goodluck♥️

You can't make someone who doesn't want to stay, to stay. you can't mend the wounds her ex husband had caused. I'm sorry you had a great experience and now its over. we all have our wounds and we all consciously or subconsciously act on them. i don't really know if she really still wants you...

whatever if they find outside I'd just not want to be interrogated or my husband not respecting my desires and own life. Regarding my son being in their lives, these are my husband's aunts.... not his parents and we see them on holidays only once or twice. But SIL are same almost and sadly she...

Thank you I'll try avoiding sitting near them, and try to avoid conversations. good thing is I don't have a nanny lol we're not that rich and so it means my son will keep me busy and I'll have good excuse ? about boundaries yes i also recently knew what it is, after reading the book... and after...

I definitely agree. But we have a son together and i dont feel comfortable leaving my son with them alone thats why I'll go. They have passive aggressiveness where they make fun of one another. Children are separated from adults EVEN in meal times. Children are usually with nannies. And they...

So my in laws are very toxic people and they just like to gossip. My career life is very personal to me. I don't even want to tell them where i work because then I'd keep having anxiety. My husband doesn't understand and thinks i should just tell them the truth. But I don't want to, i know it...

Thank you so much♥️

I REALLY appreciate your long reply! And all thr quotations u did. It helped me a lot! Thank you so much. Whenever in doubt or fears i will reread what you wrote to me. Thanks again ?? Parenting is far harder than i thought it'd be ? but most beautiful ♥️

Thank you so much for repling - the void i meant was of my childhood, i never had a safe home. My father was drug addict, and alcoholic. I grew up knowing them so well, although i did attract some - i knew well what they were. Im lucky i guess somehow. Im so sorry your journey has been as this...

If im being honest, my son is doing better in daycare than he was in my care. (Eating better) But i feel im losing our bond, im not as patient as i used to be and understanding. Im tired most of the time for him. He's acting out for attention and im not able to understand his behaviors at the...

I realized that no one can ever take the place of my parents because they're the only people who should've provided me with a safe home that i can come to and i never found that. my teachers had "father- or parent figure" And i looked up to them and often i had wished they would "adopt me"...

I'm so sorry you'd gone through all of this and you are still going through it. First i must say he is not the man you need anymore. And the reasons are: - he invalidates your feelings - he sees you damaged and unfixable - he disrespects you and cheats on you ....... the list goes on. What...

So this is my first post here and im so scared to share this. Idk what to expect. But I've been a stay at home mom for a year after taking care of my baby. I am now back to work, and i have to go through training where the presenter keeps talking about parents. Respect ur parents, reach out for...