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I've identify some thinking patterns we can all recognize. Please don't discuss the appropriateness of the name I have chosen for each mentality. Instead, I would like you to consider if there is a mentality that is dominant for you when you are in a relationship. Then I would like to ask if...

It been a year since I had enough. Due to verbal abuse and explosive anger, I would only see him for a few hours where he works. In that year he exploded twice and since it put his job at risk, I got my proof that this was not something he did intentionally. I made sure that he did not loose his...

Some of us (and I certainly would never speak for all) need to have life become difficult in order to change. Some people view a personality disorder as if the illness or symptoms were a dysfunction that should not be tolerated by others. Friends that are too understanding are seen as enablers...

How does one go about setting boundaries without them sounding like ultimatums? What is the difference between the two? I have no problems being or talking assertively like "please don't use that tone of voice" but "I'll do this if you do that"....is not a part of my vocabulary. usually i just...

When my guy gets agitated, I am usually good at calming him and then exiting. We don't live together. Neither of us are military. We meet in public places usually. I want advise on how to tackle a particular behaviour that only comes up when he feels over stressed. He will get very dominant "Buy...