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That is good news Kathy I hope things keep going well for you,Jim and Evie! Jen

Ah thank you! Jen

I seem to have a video chat thingy that has appeared under my name overnight? I dont have a camera or mike just wondering why it is there? Thanks Jen

How is she Kathy? I have my fingers crossed for you guys! Jen

Good to see Kathy I hope you feel better after it! Jen

Next weekend Kathy and looking forward to it! Jen

Thanks Veiled for helping me understand this a bit better! We are hoping that getting a new house out of town and still be able to run our business as it is only 20 mins out. I look that it will be a retreat of some sort if you know what I mean. As for lining up projects to be done he is...

Thanks Veiled thats a good question Jods! I think us talking about selling our house and moving out of town so far has been a good thing as hubby is starting to do things around the house to improve it. Maybe a new project is what he needed I just dont want him to overdo it as he tends to go...

Yeh Jods but I dont think we could afford it! I have a question do sufferers look to the future much or is it really a day by day thing. Hubby is 50 and I will be in a couple of years we often talk about selling our house and moving onto acreage I can see that this would be a good move and I...

Oh and what an island it would be hey:smile:

There is a lot of worry there for you Kathy I hope she comes through ok. Its a shame your weekend in the city is not under different circumstances. All the best to Evie! Jen

How are things going with Evie Kathy? Hope Jim and yourself are hanging in there! Jen

Thanks Jods we are not bad hey? First we want to be mind readers then we want a magic wand. How about that recluse for spouses out in the middle of Oz!:smile: Jen

The Pysch said he needs time to settle down after his Dads passing away. And that was about it, I am a bit dissapointed with that I suppose I was hoping for a miracle cure? Oh well back to the drawing board! I hate it when I think there may be a light at the end of the tunnel but it goes away...

I think we should have a note pad beside outr bed Kathy with all the thoughts that run through our head at night hey? Please share any thoughts you need to here it will make you feel better! Jen

Thanks Kathy he sees the Pysch this morning I will see how he goes? Jen

I was thinking about writing a note the other day to hubby but it wasnt going to be a mushy one!! (Dear John) I may think about writing one to him as you mentioned Marlene? Jen

He seems a bit better over the weekend he even mowed the lawn on Fathers Day he never mows the lawn it was to keep himself busy I suppose! I still feel like he is very fragile I just have to watch what I say and do! Thanks for your support through these last few days! Jen

Na Jods he wont talk to ouy kids about his feelings he wont even talk to me about them. I am avoiding him as much as I can until I feel he is ready. I am going over to have a walk around the golf course soon. Not playing yet but just walking and enjoying company! Thanks Jen

I spoke to his mates wife last night she is going to try to get him to ring Hubby? Kathy I am not talking to him unless I really have to so we are not communicating. He has so much anger in his voice I am going to give him a wide berth until he is ready. I will keep living my life and do what...

Hope all goes well for Evie next week keep us posted! Jen

Thanks Jods for that he does have a really good mate who he can talk to but he is overseas with the Army until Feb which is a real bugger! Jen

Thanks Jim I just rang him and said if he needs space I will go away for a couple of days he said he needs me here! He said he is struggling with his Dads death it has hit him hard as I knew it would he said he is realising that now he has no parents. I said I am there if he needs comfort he...

Me again sorry but I am not sure what to do! Should I stay here over the weekend with him but just try to avoid him I just have a feeling he needs to be by himself well he gives me that impression! I dont know whats going through his head he just hates me at the moment yep I know he is fragile...

Well this morning after he dragged himself out of bed he said he felt a bit better that lasted 30 seconds! I got yelled at for moving his water bottle to a different area on the bench come on! I am not going to go through the emotional abuse again he told me I am self centred I have no idea what...