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I hear all that your saying and understand you want only the best for him. You set a boundary for yourself and your needs. And maybe partly because you felt it would help him stay with the program. ( just a feeling I’m picking up. Doesn’t mean I’m right.) but it’s set and you have to follow...

I love the story of your new friendship. Friendships can help get you through the hard parts of a relationship. So I hope the date goes well. The pup is absolutely gorgeous!!!! Hopefully he likes cats, lol.

I just wanted to share and if your willing to keep an opened mind. Read about chakra’s. You can take it or leave it, but it can be a very interesting read.

I’m glad your out dating and enjoying life. Seeing what you truly deserve in life. Happiness, no judgement a voice. To be treated with respect and care. To be treated the same way you treat other. How’s the pup doing? Anymore pictures?

Do you feel you have your own life outside of the relationship. Do you have your own hobbies, friends? Do you do things with out her? Does she do things without you?

Welcome to the supporters side. I have a 20 -17-15 year old in my home. I have a great relationship with my children. My advice would be, work on having open communication. Let them make their own mistakes ( unless you know the mistakes would have heavy consequences) making mistakes and learning...

Good for you @Sighs. I like the bear :)

Hi welcome to the forum :)

Welcome to the forum :) I hope you read around the forum and know there is support.

Maybe that’s your answer. Without you at the party, he could do or drink what never he wanted, without having to be accountable for anything. I’m just guessing only you would know. But after this party, you may be the only one invited to others. I hope you don’t get questioned by your co-workers...

I want to make sure I’m understanding this right. A good friend of yours is hosting a birthday party for a co-worker. Which is also both your co-worker and good friend of your SO. Many other co-workers have been invited and their SO. Not that it matters, because to me this is a dick move. Was...

You say you both can communicate when there’s a third party. Do you know why?

If you can go away with a friend for the weekend. Go and enjoy yourself. Don’t wait around, it’s great having a life with friends outside of your relationship.

That’s great!! Happy to hear your moving forward. Also, hats off to him. He took a big step :)

I was thinking the same as @LuckiLee .

A threat of divorce can be very scary and being pregnant is even harder. His behaviour now, is it since he stopped taking his meds? Did he come off them on his own or with his doctors help? You said he isn’t going to therapy, did he go at one time?

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Welcome to the forum. Gald that you found us. There is a lot of support here, from both sides, suffers and supporters. Take some time and read around the forum. Read about the stress cup it may help you understand your husbands behaviour. It’s hard for me to say if he’s symptomatic or if this...

Can you ask him not to be there? It might make it easier for you. If not, writing all the reasons out, why you left and then reading them before you go may help you just see the abusive person he truly is and not the victim. Sending support and :hug:

I don’t think I could add anymore, then what’s been said. Just know we are all here for you. We send out a group hug. :hug:

Welcome to the forum :)

@Sighs I know it hurts to see he’s on a dating site. Please know, it had nothing to do with you. He has no self esteem and instead of looking at himself. He put ting on a mask. A mask of someone he knows he isn’t. You know yourself, he can only wear the mask for so long, before the real person...

I could see it scratching the paint. On a DINKY CAR!!!!!

Plus rings on your toes :)

Yep, you only speak the truth. There’s more to come. My guess is playing the victim. Sending support and hugs :)