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How do you let go and move on when everything you do is a dead end? When you realize what a loser you are?

Why is it that nothing helps? No one can help you when you need it. I was completely manipulated and screwed over. Set up and made to look like a dumbass. I used to love myself before all of this. Now, I hate everything about my life, I am stuck in a rut, every decision I make bites me in the...

My therapist keeps telling me I will figure it out. She gives me suggestions and nothing works. I never felt like this before and no one can help me. I feel confused about my identity after being set up. I know I will be alone forever, but the pain is killing me! The emotions, just everything is...

I’m failing my studying and also depressed because I have no friends. Sometimes, I think therapy makes things worse. I can’t get rid of the charges or fix my life. I’m so tired and drained.

I will probably always grieve it because I lost so many good opportunities that I can’t get beck. So many bad things have happened, and no good things. You are right, there is nothing anyone can do, so I have to suck it up. No one cares anyway. I try to be nice to people and it just backfired in...

When everyone is projecting on you, how do you know who you really are? I think my ex was a manipulator, but now my life is so messed up. None of what I want is happening because I am not who I thought I was. This whole projection thing is awful. My life used to be so goo, and now the only thing...

I hate life! It’s all a bunch of bullshit lies! Everyone is a liar. I can’t get any of my dreams! Everything is a projection and I am a fake! It takes time they say...I don’t believe it. I have no friends, no love. I am so lonely but I don’t meet people I have things in common with.

I totally feel this way. Like talking about it doesn’t change anything for me. If only I could “do” something, but then I get overwhelmed. 🤨

I never experienced the gods vs evil thing until I went through my trauma with my ex. He set me up and lied, now I experience it all the time.

It happens to me. My ex husband set me up so now I notice it a lot more.

What do you do when your life has fallen apart, you have no friends, you’re tired, you’ve been victimized, but you still have dreams- even though your dreams are a constant failure? No one can help you since you messed up and let someone manipulate you? How do you trust people?

I feel like such a failure for letting emotions get in the way. Feelings are awful...well, at least bad feelings. The thing that is most horrible is that I lost so many opportunities and now it’s harder to accept that I am a failure compared to what I used to be. The therapist can say all she...

I had so many dreams and hopes that were killed by “trauma.” I am so depressed yet I act like everything is ok because there is truly no help. I should have fought. I should have done so many things but I can’t change what has been done and I can’t change the way I feel. I am coming to terms...

My family was actually a good influence on me as far as saving and not living beyond my means. My ex was the one that always told me that I was too stingy, so I loosened up and it has snowballed out of co trol. Now, I use spending as a way to deal with anxiety and depression 🤦🏻‍♀️. I have...

I need something in my life to go the way I want it too lol. I need hugs from my nieces and nephews (I adore them since I have no children, and I can spoil them lol). The one thing that would let me heal completely would be if the judge even knew what I went through. A small validation would be...

Thanks, @woodsy1. I just wish there was a way to fix my life and situations. I just keep feeling like everything is going down the drain. Life has officially become too much to handle, and when I look at the reality of things, it’s depressing. I thought that if I healed, life would be better...

Focusing is really hard. I was completely manipulated and lied about. This is so unreal, but real. The stress that this causes me is so bad my right arm is going numb. I know it’s all psycho somatic, but damn if it isn’t hard to stop. All the way from my shoulder to my hand. It is awful lol. I...

I imagine standing up to my abuser too, and having a better life, but it just isn’t happening to me. It was really confusing when I was blamed and things did not work out how I wanted them to. I wasted all my good years on someone who was just using me.

I am good at shopping, being a good aunt, my job, and cooking, even though I don’t do that as much.

I totally agree about the spidey analogy- love it. It made me smile. That last paragraph you wrote- totally how I feel. And I think a lot of it is because my ex used to call me crazy all the time and the court basically agreed with him. Then he secretly apologized and carried on a secret...

Thanks. This is positive and hopeful, it’s just hard to rebuild when you are alone and always in fear of being alone. Being alone gives me the worst anxiety ever. Thinking of being screwed over again does the same. I can’t judge people correctly, so I have a hard time opening up. I get it, I...

Yeah, I wish I could control my mind to do something and stop wasting my life away. I literally have no one. I am so overwhelmed mentally, I am so tired, and I just can’t believe this. Nothing has turned out the way I wanted. I was brainwashed into thinking I was better than people. That I...

This is amazing!

I can relate to that. This is what I went through and felt like to a T- except with my ex. This is so crazy to even read this.

So, one thing my therapist told me is I need to learn to control my mind. I have really been thinking A LOT about that lately. Control your mind. Makes sense, and I know I have to do it because I don’t know what else to do. I wish I had known all of this stuff years ago. Now, my life is stuck. I...