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Oh honey I've found him doctors, therapists, etc and he won't go. I feel sorry for his kids. He has one that's autistic and won't or can't take the time to learn about it. I'm afraid he's going to cause that boy more harm than good.

Thank you, I'll think on it.

True. I guess I don't know how to deal with the constant rehashing of the same thing and no end. This has been going on for a a few years now lol He will complain about the same stuff but do absolutely nothing about it. What do I do with that?

I'm sorry I don't understand

My husband had a porn issue and when he was using his porn of choice was teenage girls. He would compare me to them. He doesn't do that now but it may have to do with my way if thinking. The ex before him, the one that I'm on this forum for, also had a porn problem but he used his different. I...

How do you handle it? For example a guy I work with with complain about his exgirlfriend, the mother of his kids, and ask me what to do. I'll give him advice but he won't take it then does it again. I see this kind of thing all the time. I feel like some people don't really want help, they want...

I don't have the same situation as you exactly but my husband is younger than me by 7 years and I am 45 going through at least perimenopause. I have some issues with him around younger women for a few reasons but one is that I am getting older and by societies standards won't be attractive much...

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I ended up married like that. @caligirl03 dont let him pull your heart strings. If he mentions suicide again call 911. Let them deal with him. I've been manipulated that way many many times by a few people. It's no fun.

I agree. I do the same thing.

You had every right to be distraught. It was a distressing thing to deal with. I'm sorry for what you are dealing with. I hope you getting back into therapy will help you untangle all of your emotions and help you move forward however you do.

What kind of answers were you looking for? What would you tell someone else in your situation?

Sorry I must have misread. My apologies.

Nobody here can diagnose you with anything. If you're truly concerned your best bet is to see a professional. Welcome to the forums!

What she said.

Personally I wouldn't bother to call the police. That is a pretty open threat that could mean anything. I would just pack my crap and get out. Don't even give the piece of crap a chance to test his theory.

How long have you and his mother been split up?

You don't deserve that. Nobody does. Find somewhere to go that's nowhere near that jackass!

What a douche. Get the heck out of there.

If that isn't a cause for diagnosis @HealingMama then what diagnosis is it? I don't understand why ongoing trauma doesn't count.

Is there something going on at school you don't know about? Bullying online? It might not be a bad idea to take him to see a therapist.

Walgreens has an app where you can chat with a pharmacist. Download it and ask them questions, you don't even have to have any prescriptions through them. It can either validate you or ease your mind.

Talk to your pharmacist if you aren't sure. They know more about that kind of thing than the doctor does.

Hi and welcome! Are you seeing a therapist?