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I'm probably triggered but... Leave him. He has admitted to doing it because he figured it was the worst thing he could do. He did that crap on purpose. The doing shit things then being good then doing shit things then being good ( even talking about how sorry they are. Especially talking about...

Trying to not lose it.

Something you could maybe say is " thanks! You're such a great friend!" I think that would keep him in that line of thinking knowing that is how you feel about him...

You could ask him what he means. One of my husband and I's best friends is 78 years old. He just lost his wife but when she was sick and he was caring for her still we would help him. He tells me he loves me all the time. We were the only people that were there for him no matter what and it...

One of my favorite people on the planet is a retired firefighter ( he's now my supervisor). You all are some great people!

Still at work at the zoo...it's 95 degrees. Fall comes on Friday :)

I'm at work at the zoo..it's 11:35 am and it's already 88 degrees.

Thank you all. I think I asked this a while back and just forgot about it.

Thanks! I'll look into it

Can somebody explain that to me?

Exactly. Just because you WANT to hurt somebody, doesn't mean you do. Narcissist or not.

I say it's irresponsible to give somebody with an addiction history.

Thanks!

My understanding is dbt is for borderline not PTSD. Is that not correct?

A fourth one is better than a bad one..

Can you see a different therapist in that office then?

That explains alot. You really need a trauma therapist. Somebody not trained in dbt shouldn't be doing that either.

Is she a trauma therapist?

I can't find it either. I suggest a new therapist.

Agreed.

Thank you

She had agreed to outpatient intensive therapy while she was at the hospital overnight but didn't do it.

Other than church...I hike. I get in nature. I find it peaceful and relaxing.

Agreed but I'm still trying to learn this. It's not easy but it's helping.

I like the turning it around idea. I'll give it a try. Thanks.