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Very true! I did read up on the stress cup stuff. He doesnt have a sense of whats going to happen, he thinks very similar to you. which is why i found comfort reading all your posts. I guess i do sometimes pull him down, i cant understand how he is feeling, what he is dealing with or seeing, its...

I guess i just wanted insight from everyone. Sorry to have posted it on here.

Hi everyone, someone who posted on my thread actually directed me to this posting because of all the things I have been dealing with, my guy is the sufferer. Thank you @Freida for posting this. reading through things from your perspective as well as everyone else has been insightful. My guy is...

I did invite him, I guess we'll see what happens then . Thats actually how he is, he doesnt sleep well when he's not with me. I really wish he would get some kind of help, but I dont see it happening any time soon. Ugh. Im so happy for you! hopefully a new year brings many good new things to...

Because you are a sufferer, is it always hard to sleep? I find my guy never sleeps, he can actually only have a somewhat good night sleep when hes with me, other wise he's up almost all night long. I'm glad that in a way we're helping each other. I did not even realize you were in a different...

I believe the "normal rules thing" - last year we spent it together, but then again last year he wasn't going through this withdrawal either so it makes sense. He even told me that he doesn't care about the holidays enough to where it would be significant to bring me, that only i am like that...

Christmas was extremely tough. With his apologies and his "understanding" and then making it up to me by coming over at 9pm when Christmas was basically already over. I was very upset, but then it's like how can i when he made an effort to just come over? Confusing. He's confusing, then...

I am so confused. Sometimes i feel like i know what hes doing, I study it so I can better react to it, and then he sends me on a spinning whirlwind and im back to not knowing a thing. I dont think there is someone else, he's shown me his messages, DM's etc to kinda, prove to me that its not...

Thank you for that insight, and well all of the insight you have given. I like things to be explained and kind of in-your-face so that I get it. Like i said, its just hard. He's very touchy feely with me too, holds my hand in the car. touches my face and legs, loves when I lay on him, will not...

I think that's just the hardest part. I try to enjoy it, and then sometimes he'll say things to the effect of well we're broken up or something along those lines, and then it brings me down again. Do you have any advice about the holiday post i put up? about new years, and asking him to spend...

That part right there made me so emotional. His sister has actually said something very close to that to me. That i'm basically all he has and he loves me so much. I guess from my perspective it's almost counter intuitive. He has seen me break down and cry and get really upset over him acting...

Another thing i need some help with guys - or maybe I just need to vent - Christmas just passed, and I don't really have family where I live or basically any really. He knows this, and well as I said in the first post - once we broke up and started doing okay again, I had asked if we were...

Hi omer! Thank you for your insight, i'm just so confused. I understand a "relationship" and commitment may be too much for him right now but isnt that technically what we're in already? I guess i'm just personally having trouble distinguishing between the both because of how we act already...

You and me both. Literally, i'm actively learning and these forums are actually helping. I think the best thing we can do is be there for them until they work through their own personal problems. I dont think we should push them in any direction, because that will make them go the opposite...

You and I are in the same boat, let me know if you need someone to talk to

Hi everyone - I'm new to this forum so I'm going to try to explain everything i can, in as little as i can because i tend to get carried away with my writing. I was dating a military veteran, infantry in the Army with one deployment. we didnt date while he was deployed but we constantly...