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I got back together with my ex like twice after the divorce. The first time for five months because he went to rehab, seemed to be serious about sobriety. Ditched his loser friends. Working. Going to meetings. Being a normal human being. He relapsed twice in those five months. Then relapsed when...

Married guys are never a good idea. I was with a married guy once. He was not abusive - but I regret it because he was my best friend at first. We did talk for awhile after but I haven't heard from him in a couple years and it sucks. But despite the fact this guy is married - you need to get...

In my state we don't have bail bondsman. I thought that when you used bondsman you had to pay 10% and then if that person jumps bail, they just keep the money...that's very weird you'd have to pay something and be on the hook. Bail is supposed to be a surety to show up to court and if that...

The state can only do what they can with the information provided. Most judges who grant orders aren't going to go doing background checks to see if the person is lying or not about identity and other things. There are times where they grant both parties an order. It likely depends on the state...

Abuse is abuse. It doesn't matter if it was physical, emotional or mental. Emotional and mental abuse are usually far worse than physical.

My mother gets horribly gaslighted by her husband. Everything she tells me he says to her I just want to punch him in the face. In the last two months she's told me he has said the following to her: That she is the sociopath and she has a personality disorder (she might have a personality...

I have absolutely no urge to have any relationship with him. He is not allowed in my apartment. It's my discretion if he sees her and I told him if he wants to be her father he has to prove it and if he wants to see her he can come to her and I'll meet him in a public place. When I read that...

I'll be surprised if I get that damn bail money back. Supposedly he'll give me what he has and then pay me $200 a month to pay back the rest (the court keeps 10% and then they took $1000 or so for fees and stuff and gave him the rest of that half so he had about $1500 before he went to jail in...

I'm military and when I do have to leave, I have to notify the court. We were married and got divorced. Luckily he never showed up and didn't do the online parenting class as is required so parenting time is at my discretion. But when I move I have to notify the court and he will get notified...

I bailed him out. I know I enabled him as did his first wife, his parents, his siblings. We've all done it. I know he's just spewing bullcrap. I just had to vent this all out because it just irritates the crap out of me when he gets a little sober he starts saying this but it never lasts.

So I divorced my ex husband almost 2 years ago. We got back together twice in that time. I stupidly bailed him out last year and it wasn't cheap. He had finally had his pretrial in March and they offered him a plea so he took it and has been in jail the last two months. Has to do 3 of six...

You need to figure out how to leave. Him being a vet with PTSD is NO excuse to hit anyone. Lots of vets and active duty have PTSD and they do NOT act like your boyfriend. My ex husband beat me three times while we were together. The first time it happened I did hit him first but only because he...

She came down - and didn't want to go back. I'm sure he gave her the riot act when she got back. My cousin is going to try to get her mom (my mom's sister) to call her and set up a visit. I sent her some links for dv so she has an outlet. I told her she needs to go see a therapist alone. He was...

... Like 62? Like I said she started this relationship when she was married to my dad and that was when I was like 5 because I was 6 when my brother was born. He's about 28 so at least 29 years she's been with this guy including their affair. They got married like probably 3 years after she...

My mom is in an abusive relationship and has been for almost 30 years. Short story: She met her now husband when she was married to my dad. They had an affair that lasted about 12 years and my youngest brother is the result. We didn't know until my mom filed for divorce and a paternity test was...