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I'm sorry that you and your sufferer are going through rough times, my friend. It's not a fun situation for anyone to be in. As hard as it is, and as intimidating as it might seem, the solution to all this is direct and clear communication. You have to be willing to speak to one another about...

Honestly, it truly depends on the person. When I notice a "pattern", honestly, I feel this "pattern" is not related to PTSD at all, as much as it's related to what is commonly known as the honeymooning phase - it happens to pretty much everyone who's ever gotten into a romantic relationship...

I have had a friendship with a sufferer spawning over 10 years since we were both fairly young, so yes, I did have the time to learn a few things :) I am not quite sure on the alleged belief that the therapists said that after a year, she shouldn't be in therapy again. I'm not too familiar...

Hugs if you accept them, I'm so sorry that you're going through this :( Sometimes, getting to a correct answer can lead you spiralling because you're so used to being told that you're wrong. It's hard to come to terms with, and it will take time to fully accept it, even if you knew this as a...

Firstly, I appologize that you are going through this. It is difficult on both the sufferer and the supporter alike. Secondly, don't. I know that sounds bad, but don't actually deal with them. Remove PTSD from the picture. If a partner started becoming verbally abusive towards you, berating and...

Best of luck to you, friend!

That's not surprising, actually, considering ice climbing can involve loose rocks and ice, very cold climates, potential frostbite...oh, and avalanches, that too probably. I get shivers just thinking about it. :confused: I'm thinking for teaching supporters, things like the difference between...

So sorry KateK, I know that it must hurt very much to be in a situation like this. If it helps putting his emotions into context, think of it this way: Have you ever found yourself in a time in your life where you had chore after chore, assignment after assignment, obligation after obligation...

It's no problem, my friend. :) I know that after months of trying to be compassionate and caring towards someone, seeing them lash out and want nothing to do with you is hurtful and all-round pretty shitty. PTSD or not, just in general getting slapped in the face after taking care of someone is...

In moments like these, it's important to step back. Take a deep breath, find peace of mind. Ask yourself: According to the facts on what has happened, what is the best possible outcome? What is the worst possible outcome? And finally, what is most likely to happen? You are already doing what...

Hello friend, I'm sorry to hear about all the things that have happened. I can tell that it's very difficult on everyone involved. :( A notice that when it comes to PTSD, the holiday seasons are probably the worst time for many individuals with PTSD for the reason that it means many, many...

That happens a lot with toys, it's really irritating that toy companies don't prepare themselves for the popularity of certain items, especially during holiday seasons. Happened with Hatchimals - they were surprisingly popular and the company didn't prepare for it and said they wouldn't be able...

Firstly, you're not being selfish for asking emotional support. A relationship, PTSD or not, is a two way road that requires compromise and communication. Many individuals with PTSD can struggle to offer support if they're struggling themselves, and are therefore not required to give support...

It wouldn't be creepy to keep letters or notes. They're mementos; lots of people have mementos of people, even if they're just in the form of little things like birthday or christmas cards or stuff like that. Lots of people hold onto things that are deemed meaningful to them. The question is...

While it may have been wrong to lash out, believe me on this when I think it goes without saying that you had every right to stand up for yourself and challenge her. While her constantly mentioning your disorder may be a very, VERY poor attempt to ground you into realizing these arguments are...

Hello friend, I am so, so sorry to hear about your loss :( I know that especially during this time of year, coping with heartbreak can be difficult. Have you been taking care of yourself despite this happening? Have you been outside lately, maybe hung out with some friends or family? I know...

If he asks you to leave you alone, it's best that you respect that decision and leave him be. Individuals with PTSD will sometimes become overwhelmed or triggered by something and want to be left alone to either process things or feel safer - it can sometimes last days or weeks, even months...

While this is in a different spectrum of understanding, I personally suffer from Asperger's syndrome and feeling empathy or putting myself in another's shoes can, at times, be very, very difficult, and I sympathize with that. I'm so, so sorry that you feel the way you do. :( Right off the bat...

Hey friend. As an artist, I completely understand how you feel. I remember posting some of my art online, and a few of my works have been repurposed and reposted, as well as copied, without my permission. It's devestating and discouraging. It really is. PTSD, especially when it comes to...

It's nothing weird. In fact, it's pretty common. It's probably also the same reason, say, some people would be frightened of animatronic puppets, clowns, or anything that has a masked face and moves in an erratic or unusual way. Seeing something cartoony or otherwise bright with unnatural...

Unfortunately, my friend, this is where you set VERY hard boundaries, especially if your husband is narcissistic. Tell him that you refuse to be treated the way he does. If he refuses to compromise, listen to you, or continues his set of behaviors, regardless of what 'conversation' you are in...

It all really depends, my friend. Sorry about your worries and concerns, I know it must be worrying. Truth is, it's truly different from everyone. For all you know, after the shock of his previous marriage, he may never want to marry ever again in his life, due to the hard feelings of betrayal...

The desire to have control over a situation is normal, especially when you don't know how another person will react. However, it's always important to remember that we as people, never have control over others. Sometimes, we hear things from them we don't want to hear - that's unfortunate, but...

I agree, setting boundaries towards these people is probably the best course of action when it comes to having personal space. However, it's also important to step back and ask yourself why you feel such hatred towards your co-workers. Maybe they are desperate and not very intelligent, but that...

It all depends on the person and whether they are open to dating or not. Some people adamantly refuse to date or become involved with a significant other for many, many reasons - especially if it stems from abuse. Others are more open to the idea of dating, but struggle to reveal anything...