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    Anyone with experience relating to/coping with people who have bpd

    I’m sorry. I just needed help. I asked for help and I got help. And it did help. The first poster also said with that with treatment anyone on that spectrum can be and are wonderful people. The problem is that often people refuse to accept or acknowledge they have a problem. When you don’t know...
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    Anyone with experience relating to/coping with people who have bpd

    Other person. thank you. Luckily I don’t feel very charitable anymore about my responsibility to this person. I don’t have a lot of caregiver qualities. Which sometimes it turns out isn’t such a bad thing. I was realizing things today like he used to use his therapist to sorry, OTHER...
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    Anyone with experience relating to/coping with people who have bpd

    This is 100% how I feel. And I do feel like I’ve become the crazy one. I’m not d I want to thank you from like the bottom of my heart for writing this. IFor a little while I was actually not in pain and symptoms subsided. Then much to my dismay I started feeling symptomatic again. I keep...
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    BPD Ptsd vs bpd

    Maybe I’m wrong but I think it’s the ability to be rational. I can see my faults. My ability to see others isn’t compromised. Like I can be acting crazy but also be super rational. I can also feel out of control. I can feel sorry afterward. I can know what I did wrong and why.
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    Anyone with experience relating to/coping with people who have bpd

    I feel like I can’t write very well. And I have some difficulty conveying things as well as I want to. But I just want to This person I had known moved here and acted like it was his right to try to get in my mind and comment on anything about it. As if my mind was his mind that he had part...
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    Do you ever feel like you just want someone to save you?

    Not I don’t. I think for sure that position sets people up to be vulnerable. If you think about people who have their heads screwed on tight. Very few are the I almost want to say co dependent enablers. I feel like dysfunctional people want to be the white knights more than sane people. A...
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    Feeling scared of anger

    Thank you. It passed. I got out of it. I never learned to control the feelings when inside that state. But when I’m out it’s just gone. I had a conversation with the person and oddly they have said they will try to help me. So I got out of it. But if I were still in it I think I would...
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    Feeling scared of anger

    I just need to be better than this. Doesn’t matter what it takes. I will not engage in violence or revenge or confrontation. I am better then that.
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    Feeling scared of anger

    I have to keep really forcing myself to not give in. Now that I think about it I think it might be the validation I’m looking for. He invalidates. It’s been a huge issue for me in the past. Invalidation. I also want him to understand how poorly he acted in treating me. I would like him to take...
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    Feeling scared of anger

    Hi! I used to be a member here. This forum used to be a great place. I hope it still is. Anyway. I’m @#$&”#. I’ve been doing very well last few years. I would say it’s kind of been like a miracle. I started doing much better a few years ago. I never expected to start to do better but I did...
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