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What I keep receiving from these kinds of incidences, is the clear underlying message that I don't matter! I didn't matter in my family unit, and my feelings certainly didn't matter. I wasn't as important as the male members of my family, as was made clear to me on several occasions. How am I...

Feeling fragile, nourished from yummy dahl I made earlier. Full and warm. Sleepy. Happy with my decision to let go of a false friend, and looking forward to better quality friends I now have more space in my life for. I feel agony. Emotional turbulence and sensitive.Curious as to what the new...

Thanks Billie. I just have no time for that crap...or people like that. I spent the whole day naming all the things/ways in which I will not miss this person. He doesn't qualify to be MY friend.It has helped me to recognise that I am investing my time and energy into unavailable people, just...

I agree. I've blocked him on my phone and fb. He can work out why in his own time, I'm not even going to bother explaining.

@Mystery, Thankyou for relating. I am in real need of Mothering right now, and doing the best I can on my own. Men aren't the best at it, but then why would he go around talking about how he's always bringing soup for friends or taking care of them in hospital? Is he a sociopath or something? He...

I also just noticed that someone else made a thread with the very same title in this section! :D Not sure if there is anyway I can change it at this point?

I'm interested to hear how different people feel about fair weather friends. Do you tolerate them, or eliminate them all together? I had an interaction earlier, with someone I have shared a lot of my personal life with, and thought we were fairly close, even though I knew that he has major...

Shame has been surfacing, and lots of sadness, self-betrayal, deficiency and defeat. Feeling like I'm not alone in this at least, and relief to know others are going through the same thing. I feel f*cked up...but at least I'm honest about it. I feel better in my body for having expressed and...