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Myself for always forgetting how mean my dad is and thinking it will be different this time

Thanks so much you all, I will reread and respond, I appreciate the wisdom more than I can say. I came "home" where I grew up and daughter and dad are, it is triggering my PTSD something horrible but it gives me time to enjoy with Thea and make plans, I will have time to be on the site and...

U said it way better than I could:) the smiles from people make the world feel way safer, your name is Sophie's dad:)

We have been together ten years, without her I never would have been able to go to the remote nature sites, just me and her and be free. She goes under antsesia tomorrow 8:00 am please say prayers, wave incense, chant, whatever u do for thea, she gives me freedom. Love this thread.

On my way to vet tomorrow, stopping at Walmart to get plaster of Paris to make paw print, having these things to do (thank u missycat) is really helping to move this whole.process along, not sure why, but without it, I was going in circles, panicking, makes it so I can be there for thea, thank...

Becky is now bliss, it is a reminder to myself to TRY to peacefully exist as often as I can:) Ok no way around this, I can Google and get ideas for what to do with her body, and I am going to vet tomorrow and will talk to him too, but this trauma history, ptsd involving death, complicates...

Thanks wanted to share that huge gator! What about links, where they have a share option, like they want u to share it. I had posted a link to "anticipatory grief" but took it down as I hate to get in trouble! Good day to u!

Welcome, I am pretty new here too, it is helping alot! Just reading is comforting:) hope it helps u too

Hi:) are u trying to figure out if u move, bu There is alot to these situations, I am finding out, the emotional, the practical. are u trying to figure out if u move, u won't be able to bury her where u would like to have her? I can see where that could get tricky.

I don't know if we are supposed to post pics I don't see many, hope someone let's me know if it takes people's data plans or anything. Decided to get out there and live this morning and we ran across this guy, if u can blow up pics, big old alligator! She could have gotten eaten! I knew better...

Ok I am back, realized it was 300and call daughter every wendsday at that time, but so appreciate this conversation, and your post brings home, there is so much to learn and grow from this and u did it starting at 16:) thanks again, so appreciate it.

Please give that terrific lady a cuddle from me:). I love cats! That was like half your life you had your kitties:) Thank you for your response, perfect timing, today I came to what u said about being distraught being all about me and not helpful to Thea. This best tribute I can pay to her...

I thank u, beyond words:):):). Your girl is so fortunate to have u, couldn't have been loved more:) what a beautiful tribute to her. So hard to type between the healthy tears of love, bonding, and so much life:). If u read this and have time could you tell me how you cope day to day after...

Ok I did enough work on that for today, good things I did that are giving me a sense if empowerment today, went to dermatologist first time, they froze three spots and biopsied one. I have not left the camp ground because of being afraid if that guy, doing alot of self.talk on that. Day 42 as...

From thread I posted on when they die.. Ohio state veterinarian college has a good PDF, on emotional support animals dying. They have a "honor the bond" program for their clients that has social workers who help with end of life decisions, memorials, cremations or burial, support. I would do it...

Ohio state veterinarian college has a good PDF, on emotional support animals dying. They have a "honor the bond" program for their clients that has social workers who help with end of life decisions, memorials, cremations or burial, support. I would do it for sure. Going to research hotlines...

. This is making me extremely anxious so I have been reading, googling death emotional support animal. From what I am reading we have reason to be concerned about being able to function. Unless a mircle happens, I do a whole lot of work, I am not seeing it and better have plan b ready...

It occurred to me today how much thea (the dog) and I nteractions are like when I was raising my daughter, who I had when very young . I used taking care if both of them to regulate my self, so I knew what to do next. When my daughter moved away to go to collage, it was the same fear I have now...

Can we post links? I posted one for 15 signs of anticipotory grief but took it off as I don't know if we can Bristol is your dog having trouble now? Ok going to chip away at this.... My mom went of melenomia three years ago we were her care givers, anticipatory grief actually helped me alot...

Lesson ER3. HOMEWORK - DESCRIBING AND NAMING EMOTIONS: PUTTING IT ALL TOGETHER. Think of an event, which is recent, but will not distress you too much... My dog, emotional support animal for ten years, throwing up. Emotion Names?: as you described them to yourself at the time scared, sad...

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The albatross, sadly we are in same spot, no taking over at all:) wish u could take over this thread:), please say or ask anything. Post away, u have already helped me. I am over whelmed with this so will keep coming back and dealing with it in sections, right now so sad for all of us...

I realized I need to have a cope ahead plan for when my dog, my best friend and travel companion goes. She is truely a emotional support animal, I didn't plan it but she has made it so I can travel and camp while feeling safe. She lets me know everything going on around us, for the last ten...

One time in my four years of camping alone with dog, I made an exception to my rule to not have extended conversations with single men, this was three years ago. Thoufht he was ok. Gave him my number, spent couple hours with him, parked by him in campground. Long story short felt I needed to get...

Write away! It helps so much! great to hear what u wrote and counseling tomorrow:) I came back on because it hit me that u may have meant u have to figure out what he was doing by breaking up, distancing, not what was going on with u:). I get impulsive still when I relate:). I am camping all...