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Maybe you need to have this discussion with her. Tell her what you think and ask her why she thinks you have DID, is it possible that you could have both DID and PTSD? Abstract, you keep mentioning grounding techniques, do mind explaining what you mean?

I love my therapist and we get each other. I one day asked her to help me confront my abuser and she agreed. So 10minutes into the session I took my phone and called him, told him that I can still remember what he did. I was obviously scared and could not tell him everything I wanted to. After...

You are a big girl now.... This is the worst thing anyone can say to me.

NYGirl, I wish I could let my mom read what you just wrote. I am sorry about your daughters and everything you had to go through as a family. I hope things will get better for you and thank you for those words. Jane.I I understand what you mean, I also feel that I am expected to forgive him...

@Willikat, she is Christian. I just wanted to get different views about buying T a gift. I still haven't decided if I will or will not buy her a gift. But I also believe she has gone beyond her call of duty to help me

But I like my t so much and would like to buy her something small just to say thank you for putting up with me all these crazy months. Maybe a flower, nothing fancy really

So my mom is still pretending nothing happened between me and the abuser. She knows it all, I even sat her down and told her what happened but she still pretends nothing happened and wants me to also pretend. To cut the long story short, he is in hospital and mom keeps calling me to go visit...

What are your thoughts about buying a Christmas gift for your t?

I do not drink tea myself but in my country Rooibos and Joko are the best teas. You can google them

Just go see your t and be yourself. If you want to cry that is the best place to do it. I hate crying and I never let anyone see me cry, but when I am at my therapist office I let just let them come down. It is a safe place, I normally set my mind to believe I am alone in her office. I am glad...

Jd9900, you really are funny. I smiled :) Thank you

@Jane.I I did plan to fire my t nor did she say/do anything wrong. I just don't like involving my boyfriend especially now he is writing exams so I will only see him next week. @digger1, I can't really talk to her about things. She doesn't know the t she referred was for me. I keep my business...

I do not have friends, I only talk to my therapist and my partner doesn't know much about what is going on. Just don't want to feel like I am burdening him. I feel like I just want to go away where no one knows me. If possible hide somewhere where there are no people. I don't know why I fired...

This is the second week since I saw my abuser but I am still struggling to be ok. My relationship with my partner is not going well. I can't get myself to concentrate on work. It has been days since I ate, I just can't take anything in. On Monday I couldn't tell my therapist what was going on...

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@BloomInWinter thank you for the article I have read it. I am thinking if I should share it with her. But I now get the picture. I think it is because of my transference that I honestly don't mind not having boundaries :( I once asked her if we could make our own rules as we go, and she liked...

I wanted someone who'd help me understand and teach me how to cope or deal with it. I needed someone who'd not get sexually attracted me, highly qualified and experienced. So she has been working with sexually abused people for over 15years, and she has centers helping sexual abuse victims and...

I realize I need people to love and accept me because I can't love and accept myself

Then I am not sure what I need to do or say to her, maybe I can restrain myself and not contact her in between sessions. Would that be a good start?

We can swap, I wouldn't mind at all. I have seen how you write and just make people feel better when they are really down. So I wouldn't mind those brains at all

I feel like that a lot. I sometimes miss appointments because I just can't leave the house, sometimes I even miss work. Sometimes I get so angry at myself thinking why am I so lazy. Sometimes I don't have energy for anything not even for eating. I just curl up in my bed all day. I don't even...

So I went for my appointment today and things are much better. We talked about our relationship and she apologized for not being there for me the past few days as she had promised to always be available and explained why she wasn't available. I asked her about the boundaries thing and she still...

I have just confirmed the appointment and I will make sure to discuss our relationship. Thank you. I will post more after the session I hope it will go well

@digger1, I have just confirmed the appointment and I will make sure we spend a few minutes discussing our relationship and a way forward. The last thing I want is for her to refer me to someone else or terminate our relationship. My biggest fear right now is losing her, I know it sounds stupid...

I am feeling much better now, she called and said I can come see her tomorrow. Not sure if I should go, will see how I feel in the morning